Quoting Mermaid Hathor Elaina-Wed:" If you had the money, would you use a surrogate for convenience? Just because you didn't want to gain ... [snip!] ... to gain the weight, your job doesn't allowed pregnancy, for really whatever reason. If you say the mother is selfish, why? "
Not selfish. No one is really being hurt. A surrogate is being compensating and not forced, the child isn't really at risk. I wouldn't do it personally, because I'd find it a waste of money and I'd miss out on an experience. I have no problems with a woman who'd want to though,.