re: Has anyone ever left someone for someone else and it work ou

Quoting rpgmomma8404:" It's an idea but I'm just having really conflicting feelings right now. I've been with my boyfriend for ... [snip!] ... back 12. Then low and behold someone has to walk into my life and make me want to get out of this relationship even more. "

If you were unhappy before you met/were interested in this someone else, I wouldn't say you were leaving your current SO for someone else, but that you were leaving him because you have been unhappy for awhile.

Leave your current man if you are unhappy. The amount of time spent with him means nothing. Whether you get with this new guy or not is beside the point.

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Go for it. Either way, even if it doesn't work out, you'll be away from the one you're miserable with."

Yeah I know. I'm just scared of getting hurt. I'm already going to hurt someone by not wanting to be with them and it's going to be very hard to leave. I just don't want to make a decision I'm going to regret later.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" If you were unhappy before you met/were interested in this someone else, I wouldn't say you were leaving ... [snip!] ... are unhappy. The amount of time spent with him means nothing. Whether you get with this new guy or not is beside the point. "

Good point...

It's just crazy. I never felt this way about someone. I can barely sleep, can barely eat, and all I can do is think about him. I just hope this isn't some crazy ass mind game. It almost doesn't seem real. I never felt this way before. Not even when me and my current boyfriend got together. It's just really insane and intense. I just don't want it to end of blowing up back in my face. There is a lot to gain and also a lot to lose in the process. I also have to think of my son in this process and how everything will affect him. Especially with him having autism. There is no telling how he'll react and everything. Thanks ladies you all are always really helpful when I have issues.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting rpgmomma8404:</b>" Good point..."</blockquote>




If ur unhappy its not worth staying. I know first hand...... I was inlove but he never seemed to care soon the abuse and unhappyness over came my love and I left him. Now I'm 9 months in a new realtionship and happy as can be. 16 weeks pregnant and married to the love of my life who continues to suprise me and bliw my mind with his show of afection and love for me. Every morning wthought fail I get a text good morning my beautiful wife or goodmorning babygirl I love forever.

Quoting Gabrielle Hamblin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting rpgmomma8404:</b>" Good point..."</blockquote> If ... [snip!] ... love for me. Every morning wthought fail I get a text good morning my beautiful wife or goodmorning babygirl I love forever."

  That's a great story....

Quoting rpgmomma8404:"   That's a great story...."

Sorry you had to deal with someone like your ex though  

My coworkers husband left her for someone he was cheating on her with.

They've been together 10 years?

But , they still smurfed for about 5 of those 10 years and he still wants to now. So ... I don't think he's really that happy. He just can't afford anymore child support, lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting rpgmomma8404:</b>" Sorry you had to deal with someone like your ex though   "</blockquote>




Yeah me too because now that I'm gone he is relizing that I stuck by his side no matter how bad he treated me even after he tried to kill me 6 times. I took him back when he was in jail but I couldnt deel with the memories and him trying to push me away. Now he is sitting in jail reading my old letters and looking at my pictures wondering why the hell did I throw an angel like her into the trash? All I can say is its to late to appologise. My heart has left its cold embrace you left on me and found wormth in love equally returned to me. I fell from the skys or so he says but I'm his lil angle and soon to be his queen for a lil prince or princess is soon to inter the sceen steeling our hearts befor we can even see its lil face or hold her/him in our warm imbrace.

Yes I have. Sometimes you just need to find someone who makes you happier than who you are with is all.

I was with my ex dh for 9 years married nearly 7
I left him in February
We had a fairly bad relationship for months and despite working on things it never got better. Our sex life sucked, he never helped with our kids, lazy at home, never sweet and our chemistry sucked. I stayed married for fear of ruining my kids lives

I've been with my current so since march
And I've never felt this way in my life. He is the exact man I've dreamed of