re: Here we go.

Good luck! I almost was stuck in the same situation , but had a miscarriage. I want another one so bad , but my husband is MAKING me wait til February.

Glad to know there are other momma's crazy like me  

It probably won't be hard since you are pretty fertile afterwards  

Quoting Mommie Dearest.:" Good luck! I almost was stuck in the same situation , but had a miscarriage. I want another one so bad ... [snip!] ... Glad to know there are other momma's crazy like me   It probably won't be hard since you are pretty fertile afterwards   "

I really hope it happens before I get my period back but no idea when I'll ovulate so we're kinda just trying really hard lol.

My son is 6 months old, and I soo badly want another baby. But SO doesn't. Financially we are in a good place, but he is just so paranoid. He got me a cat to get rid of my baby fever, it lasted two days. Totally not the same. lol

Goodluck,sending baby dust your way!

Just to say though , even though I do want another baby , I'm glad that I don't have one. My daughter is so much fun now and I love being able to spend all this time with her. I think they deserve a good year at least to just be loved on their own.

Quoting Mommie Dearest.:" Just to say though , even though I do want another baby , I'm glad that I don't have one. My daughter ... [snip!] ... I love being able to spend all this time with her. I think they deserve a good year at least to just be loved on their own. "

So what about the second one? They don't get that one year alone. I can love my kids both equally and both just as much as I love my son now.

Quoting ℳommy to Kai♥:" So what about the second one? They don't get that one year alone. I can love my kids both equally and both just as much as I love my son now."

I'm just sharing what I feel. I lost my baby that I was going to have in February. I would trade anything to still have that baby back in a heartbeat.

The only thing is that with what all my baby girl is doing, I'm glad I have that time to give her that extra attention. When I was pregnant for those three months , I had hardly any energy to do anything with her. I got home from work and all I wanted to do was sleep on the couch and I felt a bit guilty about it.

And if you wait until you second child is a little more independent (walking, talking, ect) you don't have to give the special attention that a baby needs. I'm not trying to say don't have your second baby now , I was just giving you a pro to waiting.

good luck!! but your also pretty young to decide that your done having kids yet...lots of people dont even start having kids till mid-late 20's so by then you may want more. I know that i would feel imcomplete saying i was done having kids at the age of 20 haha.

Quoting ℳommy to Kai♥:" Probably going to get judged. I haven't told anyone yet, but I'm telling you ladies on baby gaga. I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm very excited, hopefully there are some ladies that can relate. I know some people might think I'm an idiot. :p That's okay."

mine are 12 months and 9 days apart. its really not that bad. my 3 yr old is way more outgoing and beats up her brother a lot... but its not terribly hard to handle both of them.

Quoting ℳommy to Kai♥:" Probably going to get judged. I haven't told anyone yet, but I'm telling you ladies on baby gaga. I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm very excited, hopefully there are some ladies that can relate. I know some people might think I'm an idiot. :p That's okay."

mine are 12 months and 9 days apart. its really not that bad. my 3 yr old is way more outgoing and beats up her brother a lot... but its not terribly hard to handle both of them.

Quoting ℳommy to Kai♥:" Probably going to get judged. I haven't told anyone yet, but I'm telling you ladies on baby gaga. I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm very excited, hopefully there are some ladies that can relate. I know some people might think I'm an idiot. :p That's okay."

mine are 12 months and 9 days apart. its really not that bad. my 3 yr old is way more outgoing and beats up her brother a lot... but its not terribly hard to handle both of them.