Quoting bia.:" Can you not try put her to sleep a bit later at night time? maybe 8pm? that way she MIGHT sleep through ... [snip!] ... down, kissed her and told her I loved her then left, but I got lucky she'd whine for 5mins max then that was it. Good luck!"
I've tried, when she wants to go to bed for the night it's like she practically dies and doesn't come back to life unless she gets hungry. I have literally bounced her on my leg with her eyes still fluttering shut.
I'm not so much worried about me, but about her. I don't know why she's staying up in the day time, but it has to be stressing her out making her little body run that long. That's the only reason I can think of why she crashes so hard at night.
It's been fifteen minutes, and she's actually crying now, but it's still not like tantrum crying. She'll stop for a little bit and kind of move around (I can see her from my room but she can't see me) then she'll get mad again.