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Giving a PRETEEN a sex toy?

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Giving a PRETEEN a sex toy?

posted 14th Nov
I work at Kohls and today I was training some new hires on how to put merchandise on the floor and I overheard a woman talking with her friend about sexuality. Not going to lie I eavesdropped on her conversation and she mentioned to her friend that she was going to buy her daughter a sex toy for Christmas. Her friend thought that it was a great idea because at 12 every girl should be able to pleasure themselves with penetration without having sex.

Isn't that a bit young? I know people are having sex earlier and earlier but isn't 12 a little young to get your child a sex toy?

I'm all for sexual freedom and letting your child feel comfortable with themselves sexually, but would you buy your 12 year old a vibrator/dildo?
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I'm TTC since April '13, have 1 child & live in Illinois
posted 14th Nov
Hell no! That's just weird IMO not matter how old the girl is. I just don't think it's appropriate at all for a mother to give her daughter a dildo.
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I have 1 child & live in Land O' Lakes, Florida
posted 14th Nov
Quoting ℳonster's ℳom:" I work at Kohls and today I was training some new hires on how to put merchandise on the floor and I ... [snip!] ... freedom and letting your child feel comfortable with themselves sexually, but would you buy your 12 year old a vibrator/dildo?"

Depends on the maturity of the child and the situation... I'd rather my child have a sex toy and get off herself, than have sex and potentially catch an STD or get pregnant at 13.
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I'm TTC since April '13, have 1 child & live in Virginia
posted 14th Nov
No way. You can buy your own sex toy when your 18. Smurf that smurf.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 14th Nov
Um no. DD can get one when she is old enough to buy it for herself. That moment would be just too awkward. Everyone sitting around the Christmas tree, here's your dildo. Have fun!
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I'm TTC since May '13, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Florissant, Missouri
posted 14th Nov
Only if I want to be a grandmother when my kid is 16, totally against it.
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I have 2 kids & live in Montana
posted 14th Nov
They can get it their damn self with their own money.
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Tennessee
posted 14th Nov
I am big supporter of teaching your kids about sexuality, but IMO everything has a line/limit...and that's crossing the line.
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I have 3 kids & live in Texas
posted 14th Nov
Hell no. She better learn to use her hand
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I'm due May 12th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Gaylord, Minnesota
posted 14th Nov
Quoting Blythe.:" No way. You can buy your own sex toy when you're 18. Smurf that smurf."

 
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Kópavogur, Iceland
posted 14th Nov
no. it's gross and illegal and something a girl should decide for herself.
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I have 2 kids & live in New York
posted 14th Nov
Quoting Addi's Momma:" Um no. DD can get one when she is old enough to buy it for herself. That moment would be just too awkward. Everyone sitting around the Christmas tree, here's your dildo. Have fun! "

Ha
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I have 2 kids & live in Montana
posted 14th Nov
Quoting Blythe.:" No way. You can buy your own sex toy when your 18. Smurf that smurf."

 
quotesmurfs?
I'm due August 31st (a girl) & live in Bat Cave, North Carolina
posted 14th Nov
ewwww my daughter is 11 and hell no!!!
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I have 4 kids & 2 angel babies & live in California
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