Ummm no. Just no .

Quoting Addi's Momma:" Um no. DD can get one when she is old enough to buy it for herself. That moment would be just too awkward. Everyone sitting around the Christmas tree, here's your dildo. Have fun! "

haha, I didn't even think about that. How awkward for that poor girl!

Quoting ℳonster's ℳom:" I work at Kohls and today I was training some new hires on how to put merchandise on the floor and I ... [snip!] ... freedom and letting your child feel comfortable with themselves sexually, but would you buy your 12 year old a vibrator/dildo?"

 

nowai 

Not a preteen, and not at Christmas. The rest it just depends I guess.

No.

She better go old school and have a strong hand.

If she can't walk into a sex shop and buy one herself, I'm not going to do it for her.

I think I would have literally DIED if my mother did that   

I suppose it depends on the maturity of the child. However, I damn sure wouldn't buy a child a sex toy... it's just weird. It doesn't matter how old they are, I wouldn't ever feel comfortable buying one for my girls. I'm all for self discovery, and masturbation is healthy, imho. But they're gonna have to do that without me, lol.

Wtf?! No way! I wouldnt do it. I can maybe see 16-17 but 12!? Nope! & def not as a christmas gift! How embarrassing!

Quoting .Colleen.:" I think I would have literally DIED if my mother did that   "

     

This was the first thing that popped into my head. I can't imagine ever being that comfortable with my mom that buying me sex toys would be normal.

No way , thats good way get grand babies early lol. I can hear the story already and it all started with my mother buying me a dildo. And then I figure I'd try it with my boyfriend , the dildo didnt get me pregnant so I figure it work same way with the real thing. And look at me now 9 months pregnant, what went wrong mom.

i was masturbating before i was 12 and i lost my virginity at 13. as much as i hate to say it they keep getting younger and younger. id talk to my child about it first. and i wouldnt give it to her as a christmas gift that would be just a little weird. but yea if it was something she was interested in id totally get one for her.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addi's Momma:</b>" Um no. DD can get one when she is old enough to buy it for herself. That moment would be just too awkward. Everyone sitting around the Christmas tree, here's your dildo. Have fun! "</blockquote>




Lmao.

Quoting .Colleen.:" I think I would have literally DIED if my mother did that   "

Seriously!! I almost died the first time my mother gave me a box of condoms.

"Your aunt and I were talking and decided to buy these for you."

If my kid wants one, she'll have one. If she's old enough to ask for one or about one, then obviously we have some things to talk about. I want her to know her own body and how to handle it. She's going to do that sort of thing regardless, but I'd like her to have a pleasurable outlet that doesn't include the cute boy down the street  

I mean, we could argue the causes of early sexual curiosity with no right or wrong answers. But I work in a sex store so I hear this kind of thing all day long from women who are old enough, NOW, to buy their own sex toys; If your kid is masturbating, and most of them are, they're probably using household items  . Think about it next time you grab that roll on deoderant LOL.