Quoting jaydin & cadence mommy:" i need some advise on what to do here ive already ended the relationship but SO doesn't think its something ... [snip!] ... bullsmurf and he doesnt understand why im pissed and why i ended our relationship well ladies do you think i went to far? "
I think his priorities are screwed up.
Just because he works, doesn't give him the excuse to pull stuff like that.
If there's a raid on that house, he can get arrested and charged with drug possession or worse..
I don't see how it's just okay to pop in and out of a crack house, I really don't.. that's not a healthy way to 'unwind' after work.