re: dying for a girl

Quoting OhSoFKN Fabulous:" My boys heartbeat was steady in the 150's thru out my whole pregnancy. I understand wanting a girl and ... [snip!] ... but isn't the most important thing to be a concerned about is just to have a HEALTHY baby in general no matter the sex. "

I'm sure she will be happy either way..nothing wrong with hoping for a girl. Hell I did each time I was pregnant, but ended up with both boys lol. I wouldn't change it for the world!

Quoting Just Ames:" Right...It's fun to want this or that but the OP seems a little obsessive about it, lol."

yeah...super obsessive.
I had my fingers crossed for a girl, but the day I found I was having a boy and he was healthy I was so over joyed with excitement I went crazy with buying boy stuff. lol

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" She asked what people thought. "

I was thinking she was asking about whether or not we thought the "signs" meant girl lol..either way oh well lol.

Quoting OhSoFKN Fabulous:" yeah...super obsessive. I had my fingers crossed for a girl, but the day I found I was having a boy and he was healthy I was so over joyed with excitement I went crazy with buying boy stuff. lol"

How is she being obsessive?

My dh wanted a Shane Jr. We compromised cause I wasnt having it. Ds's name is Dakota Shane.

<blockquote><b>Quoting AmberlBurke:</b>" i thought it was really prettty but u know everyone has there own taste... i love the name shane i really ... [snip!] ... do i just dont feel like its a jr type name... so i told my faince if we name him shane im just calling him jr all the time "</blockquote>



You'll prob end up calling him, *Baby Shane* I have an uncle who's in his 50's and every1 still calls him, *Baby Joe* lol,

<blockquote><b>Quoting AmberlBurke:</b>" went to the doctor for my 17 week appt today and the babies bpm where 150 ish ... i know it doesnt always ... [snip!] ... my fiance wants it but i want my girl i think the name we picked is awesome.. Aislyn ( as-lynn) bell ... what do u guys think??"</blockquote>




I'm on #4 boy. I really wanted a girl but after finding out it's a boy again I just think of the ladies that can't have kids. They would give anything for a little boy. You know. Good luck though. Hope you get your boy  

I really, really want a girl too - don't feel bad. One last shot at it and I'm done, I think it's normal to have gender disappointment and it does NOT make you a bad mom.

That being said, if your going to go with the name, I would spell it the traditional Irish way - Aislin/ Aisling / Ashling - I think it takes away that trendy -lyn ending (which will look SO dated in a few years) and give you a beautiful, cultural name.

Aislin

Aisling

Ashling

I think it has a beautiful meaning. "Dream" or "Vision".

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I really, really want a girl too - don't feel bad. One last shot at it and I'm done, I think it's normal ... [snip!] ... and give you a beautiful, cultural name. Aislin Aisling Ashling I think it has a beautiful meaning. "Dream" or "Vision". "

Gender disappointment is absolutely OK. -To a certain degree.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I really, really want a girl too - don't feel bad. One last shot at it and I'm done, I think it's normal ... [snip!] ... and give you a beautiful, cultural name. Aislin Aisling Ashling I think it has a beautiful meaning. "Dream" or "Vision". "

I think that would be a good idea too!

Quoting Just Ames:" Gender disappointment is absolutely OK. -To a certain degree."

Right, but it's not like this girl is freaking out saying she will hate her child if it is a boy lol

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I really, really want a girl too - don't feel bad. One last shot at it and I'm done, I think it's normal ... [snip!] ... and give you a beautiful, cultural name. Aislin Aisling Ashling I think it has a beautiful meaning. "Dream" or "Vision". "

we've been discussing that cause thats why it was picked my fiance is irish... ive just always been into the different spelling like my sons name is mayson < i spelt it different so it wasnt as common .. but im thinking aislyn isnt even a common name at all?
I HAVE NO ISSUE IF IT"S A BOY! guys lol im going to b disappointed but he would still be my child i would still love him im not one of those crazy ladies that would be so disappointed i'd do something insane!! i like boys theyre easier ( usually) not as a high maintenance so i would be happy either way... i just want a girl so i have one of each

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Right, but it's not like this girl is freaking out saying she will hate her child if it is a boy lol"

Oh I know that. I was just speaking in general about any instance other than the OP's, lol.

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting AmberlBurke:</b>" i thought it was really prettty but u know ... [snip!] ... You'll prob end up calling him, *Baby Shane* I have an uncle who's in his 50's and every1 still calls him, *Baby Joe* lol,"

lol 50's!? not a baby no more .. i prolly will just cause its seems so much more cute then jr when they're babies

Quoting Just Ames:" Oh I know that. I was just speaking in general about any instance other than the OP's, lol."

Oh yeah lol. I remember one time (I think she was a troll) when this girl was freaking out because she didn't want to have any girls because girls are bitches or something..she was saying she would give it up for adoption and what not