re: Could you live with being a mistress?

Quoting khigh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" You're right but most actually ... [snip!] ... with them for the prestige, bank accounts, and fancy parties. Would I be the mistress of a politician? Yes. Burger flipper? No."

Not all politicians and actresses do stay with a cheating husband. In fact the cheating is probably a big reason whr celebrities and politicians get divorced so many times. Personally, I wouldn't cheat on my husband even if it was Doctor Who at my step.

lmfao.

oh geez.

but to answer the question, no, i would never do it. i'm not a skanky whore.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" Burger flipper, politician or military like my DH actually is, I'd be pissed if I found out he was cheating on me....again.   "</blockquote>

I guess I see it differently because I've been on both sides of it. I'm currently in an open relationship because we can't divorce until he gets home from deployment. I have an so and so does he. My soon to be ex father in law just married his mistress.

Quoting Blythe.:" OP is your child his?"

No she's from a previous relationship

Quoting khigh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" Burger flipper, politician or ... [snip!] ... until he gets home from deployment. I have an so and so does he. My soon to be ex father in law just married his mistress."

An open relationship is not cheating. It's an agreement between all parties involved. Also you ex-father-in-law is probably an "ex" for a reason lol. I just don't think one should lump all people into the same category based on being celebrity or not.

Quoting Bosco123:" Yep. I mean, I would feel bad for the wife, but the guy is going to do it regardless, why not get a full ride from it?! Of course I would probably only do it in my early 20's, not my entire life."

How sad.

Quoting khigh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" Burger flipper, politician or ... [snip!] ... until he gets home from deployment. I have an so and so does he. My soon to be ex father in law just married his mistress."

I've been on both sides too but unknowingly. I slept with an ex years ago while he was in a relationship and didn't find out until after. I felt awful and never would have gone near him if I knew he was in a relationship. Then I've been cheated on so I know how that side feels too.

The fact that you are involved in ruining a family and seriously damaging them, no I would never.
If you want a sugar daddy, there are PLENTY of loaded single men out there that could give you all that minus the wife and family.

No way.  

I know how cheating ruins families so I don't think I could.
But if I had a daughter and that was my ONLY option of supporting myself and her HELL YES I would. If I can't find a job(I would still be looking) and I couldt afford the basics in life. Yes I could easily do it because I would do anything for my children. I would end it as soon as possible and pull myself together and I would hate myself for it but as long as my daughter was fed, had a roof over her head and was safe I'm sure I could do a lot worse things.

Nope not at all

Quoting Bosco123:" oh... I would only do it if I were single and had no kids."

  oh and if i were 10 years younger lol

as long as its an open relationship and the wife fully knew about everything then sure. I would be getting a hold of the wife to make sure she was ok with it first so i knew it wasn't cheating. I would never do that to my kids or anybody else's kids. that is just selfish and smurfing ridiculous, you need to grow up get a job and quit depending on a married man!! be an adult!!!

Quoting BG Secrets:" I don't need the love of a man to be happy. the love from my child and family is more than enough for ... [snip!] ... enough for me. As long as there's a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs and food on the table everything is good to me"

You exactly right you don't need the love a man to be happy. On the flip side...if you can sleep easily at night knowing how many woman and kids you have not only hurt to the core but destroyed their lives ....then that is great for you. But just remember maybe not right now but some time in the future what goes around comes around ...also remember this one day you will be older and no one will want you .....then you will be a mere 2$ hoe. You don't have any dignity for yourself, who else is going to?