Person ? bout age and sex

Ive always loved sex... My bf not so much we got together when he was 29 and i was 22 and we had a decent sex life but now that hes hitting 37 its declined to non-existant... is it normal with guys in late 30s

its like we play role reversal when it comes to this i always want n have to basically beg sometimes

oops supposed to say personal ?

SO is 34. He always wants it, it's still going strong.

I don't know how normal it is, but this sounds exactly like me and dh. He's 37 and I'm 31. Sometimes i try to wait it out and see if he wants to initiate anything, but it never happens. It's very frustrating.

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" SO is 34. He always wants it, it's still going strong."

my man just started this last yr or 2.. its annoying lol

he could have low testosterone..
you dont think he is getting it from someone else do you ( just curious, not every dude cheats,) but from experience i know when sex in a relationship stopped some of them were getting it on the side : /

can you just talk to him about it? maybe he will see a doctor

Quoting Summerfrost:" I don't know how normal it is, but this sounds exactly like me and dh. He's 37 and I'm 31. Sometimes ... [snip!] ... I'm 31. Sometimes i try to wait it out and see if he wants to initiate anything, but it never happens. It's very frustrating. "

yes it is!!!!

Umm, my Husband is in his 40's and he's a smurfing machine. So I think this is not age related what so ever. Is he working a lot? Does he have a lot on his mind? Can you guys plan a date night just the two of you? What about a strip club? I mean, the possibilities are endless. It's really not fair to chalk it off as his age. He is in his prime girl.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" he could have low testosterone.. you dont think he is getting it from someone else do you ( just curious, ... [snip!] ... stopped some of them were getting it on the side : / can you just talk to him about it? maybe he will see a doctor"

i no hes not getting it anywhere else... he goes no where to work directly home nd if he leaves hes wit my brother... unless!!! hahaha jk

Quoting AlexisNJCIII(ASD):" i no hes not getting it anywhere else... he goes no where to work directly home nd if he leaves hes wit my brother... unless!!! hahaha jk"

ahahahaah. i hope not! lol

good luck. my advice is to sit down and talk to him, plan some nice dates or go do something. just try to get some "love" back. good luck. but i don know low-T is a real issue for aging men.. something to look into

Well my dh is 25 and seems to be the same way. BUT.... its because he jerks his smurf too much to porn...

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" ahahahaah. i hope not! lol good luck. my advice is to sit down and talk to him, plan some nice ... [snip!] ... just try to get some "love" back. good luck. but i don know low-T is a real issue for aging men.. something to look into"

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Quoting ☮ Phuket:" ahahahaah. i hope not! lol good luck. my advice is to sit down and talk to him, plan some nice ... [snip!] ... just try to get some "love" back. good luck. but i don know low-T is a real issue for aging men.. something to look into"

No it's not! How old are you, like 20? This is not a "real issue for aging men". *Some* is the key word.

Quoting That Girl.:" Well my dh is 25 and seems to be the same way. BUT.... its because he jerks his smurf too much to porn..."

this would bother me : ( when i was pregnant with my first, my SO would NOT have sex with my once i was like 6 or 7 months. no matter what i did. i found him watching all this porn and smurf and i KNEW he was jerking it.i was so pissed hed rather watch nasty porn than have sex with me. im fine with porn, but smurf me too.. when he stops being intimiate with you and goes to porn, something isnt right.

He's always had a lower sex drive than i do. We also have 3 kids, so I think that's part of it. As far as date night ... what's that? lol ..sigh. My youngest is still a baby and i'm still breastfeeding.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" this would bother me : ( when i was pregnant with my first, my SO would NOT have sex with my once i ... [snip!] ... with me. im fine with porn, but smurf me too.. when he stops being intimiate with you and goes to porn, something isnt right."

agree