re: Person ? bout age and sex

Quoting Just Ames:" No it's not! How old are you, like 20? This is not a "real issue for aging men". *Some* is the key word."

im not saying its all men. im just saying its a real issue. its a "real" thing. if your hubby doenst have it good for you and him.. and no im not 20 thanks?

blah just like my SO...or ex, have to decide.


i had no sex for quite some time...you knw what this smurfer said? he had enough sex fun when he was young....like seriously?!


(hes 35)

I don't really know if you can blame it on age...my DH is 48 and I tease him that he is a horny old man, lol. He can't keep his hands off of me and we are intimate probably 3-4 times a week and would probably be more if we didn't have 5 kids and one on the way. He has always had a high sex drive though.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" this would bother me : ( when i was pregnant with my first, my SO would NOT have sex with my once i ... [snip!] ... with me. im fine with porn, but smurf me too.. when he stops being intimiate with you and goes to porn, something isnt right."

Typically we would fight non-stop about this. But this pregnancy sex... Ugh just sucks. My vagina gets raw everytime no matter what I do. I try every lube. Like my whole vag inside and out swells, So about once a week we have sex because he wants too. All I can think is getting over with it. So though it hurts my feelings, I told him that after baby is born and Im healed the smurfs gotta stop, because Im going to want sex all the time like I did before. it sucks though. Because it makes me super insecute. But I guess if Im not really wanting sex right now, I can't really blame him.

When my dh is particularly stresses his sex drive drops for a whole. Could he be stressed out?

Quoting Just Ames:" Umm, my Husband is in his 40's and he's a smurfing machine. So I think this is not age related what so ... [snip!] ... a strip club? I mean, the possibilities are endless. It's really not fair to chalk it off as his age. He is in his prime girl."

Go Irish man    

Quoting That Girl.:" Typically we would fight non-stop about this. But this pregnancy sex... Ugh just sucks. My vagina gets ... [snip!] ... sucks though. Because it makes me super insecute. But I guess if Im not really wanting sex right now, I can't really blame him."

im sorry. hope everything works out fo you

Quoting MommaSav2:" When my dh is particularly stresses his sex drive drops for a whole. Could he be stressed out?"

could be

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" im sorry. hope everything works out fo you"

Thanks! I made it VERY clear that smurf won't fly after baby is born and my 6 weeks is up. His phone may end up in the toilet. I told him I would not compete with porn.

Quoting That Girl.:" Thanks! I made it VERY clear that smurf won't fly after baby is born and my 6 weeks is up. His phone may end up in the toilet. I told him I would not compete with porn."

i just dont understand how people can be so obsessed with porn and watch it everday and allthis.. i understand sex is normal and watching porn IS a normal thing, but not everyday, and not choosing porn over sex with your partner. if i was you and once i had the OK after birth to have sex, id jump him, and make him not ever want porn and his "hand" again. lol

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" i just dont understand how people can be so obsessed with porn and watch it everday and allthis.. i ... [snip!] ... i was you and once i had the OK after birth to have sex, id jump him, and make him not ever want porn and his "hand" again. lol"

Yeah that's what I was thinking. I know we totally need to spice out sex life up. It's rather dull. I stopped giving him bj's because he wasn't doing anything 4-play wise for me. He just jumps to the point. Well lately he's been wanting to go down on me and Im all like   really? Lol but something always comes up. Like ds keeps coming into my bed. Or wakes up all the time.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" No it's not! How old are you, like 20? This is not a "real issue for aging men". *Some* is the key word."</blockquote>




Why are you being so aggressive? Relax. Low T is an extremely common problem for aging men and it's a proven fact that biologically they reach their sexual prime in their late teens-early 20's where as women reach theirs in their mid thirties.

Quoting mama erica.:" Go Irish man    "

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Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" No it's not! How old are you, like 20? This ... [snip!] ... biologically they reach their sexual prime in their late teens-early 20's where as women reach theirs in their mid thirties."

Because I happen to disagree with the generalization, that's why.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" No it's not! How old are you, like 20? This ... [snip!] ... biologically they reach their sexual prime in their late teens-early 20's where as women reach theirs in their mid thirties."

she doesnt like me, anytime she quotes me its likely to bash me in some sort of way.