Trying to decide if i want to find out gender

I will be 11 weeks pregnant this week to this point we havent told anyone were pregnant because we are waiting until christmas to pop the news that we are pregnant with our third. Our plan was to announce the gender at the same time we were announcing we were pregnant but the longer we wait to tell people and the more pressure there is to have a girl (as i already have a 2 year old and 4 year old boy) Im wondering if we should just wait until the baby is born to find out the sex?
What would you do and if you did wait was the wait worth it? Also this is for sure our last so its just so much pressure and all my family just keeps saying you ready to start trying for that baby girl yet

That is something only you can decide. I chose not to wait because I wanted to get gender specific items before the birth.

It's really up to you. With my two I found out. Mainly because the anticipation is too much and I love shopping. But if we have a third, I plan on keeping it a surprise since it'll be the last and it'll be fun to have the surprise.

imo i wanted to know the gender because it would drive me crazy to wait that long but it also made it easier to plan things.

I chose to find out with both because I wanted to be prepared.

I think something to take into account is how YOU feel. Will you be disappointed if it's another boy? (Which is TOTALLY normal). If so, then it might be best to find out ahead of time to get used to the idea. You could also find out and not tell anyone else. It sucks your family is putting so much pressure on you, as if you can choose the sex of the baby.

Good luck and I hope you get your girl!

Quoting Serial Mom ✄:" I chose to find out with both because I wanted to be prepared. I think something to take into account ... [snip!] ... family is putting so much pressure on you, as if you can choose the sex of the baby. Good luck and I hope you get your girl!"

I would love a little girl but i wanted a boy so the first time which i got that was all i was really concerned with. I really could care less as long as the baby is healthy my sister just had a little boy so everyone is dying for a baby girl ahhhh such a hard decision!

Quoting Lucky_me:" I will be 11 weeks pregnant this week to this point we havent told anyone were pregnant because we are ... [snip!] ... our last so its just so much pressure and all my family just keeps saying you ready to start trying for that baby girl yet "

Me and my partner don't want to know the gender.It will be a lovely surprise but at the end of the day it is up to you and your partner if you want to find out x

I vote wait...we have never found out what we were having with any of our kids and love that moment at delivery when the anticipation has been building for so long. It is so exciting and somthing you won't regret doing. Sending you lots of pink dust for that baby girl!