Quoting Mombom:" I don't have any experience with this, but I have a couple of ideas for you to try. First, give him Hylands ... [snip!] ... he can hopefully stop making the association. Thanks for being so dedicated to the breastfeeding relationship! Good for you!"
Those sound like great suggestions!
OP, I'm sorry you are dealing with this. Your baby doesn't hate you, he's just in pain. I know it must be sad for you that he's so willingly taking a bottle but refusing your breast. I hope you figure this out and are able to continue BF'ing. I also say good for you for your dedication to BF'ing!