New boyfriend *sex*

My new boyfriend has never used a condom since we've slept together and always cums inside of me, I guess im used to and expecting the opposite so that nothing happens unexpectidely! I am on the pill but dont know how safe it really is. Have any of you experienced this and were suprised as usually guys will do anything to have sex but no babies!???

I'm a little confused as to what you're asking here. I think it's whether or not the pill is effective. The answer to that is, sometimes. No form of birth control is 100% guaranteed, except abstinence.

I hope you've been tested for STD's

"new boyfriend" makes me think that you should be wrapping that thing

DH and I never used condoms in the almost 5 years we've been together and the pill never failed me. I would be careful tho if he's a new bf, you don't want any sti's :/

My husband has never liked wearing condoms or pulling out   I think most men would prefer it that way if they could since that's how it feels best (and, I don't like them at all either).
I didn't get pregnant on the pill or on implanon so I know nothing is going to happen with us once I'm on nexplanon, we'll continue not to use condoms/pulling out.

If you're not wanting a baby, I would make him wear a condom on top of being on the pill. The pill isn't 100%, especially if it's not taken correctly. And sometimes people forget to take one pill, or take antibiotics not knowing that some cancel out the birth control all together, etc.

There is no such thing as safe sex, only safer sex. I'm not saying anything about your new boyfriend, but I'd also be concerned about STD's.

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" I hope you've been tested for STD's "new boyfriend" makes me think that you should be wrapping that thing"

 

Sorry, it didnt really haha! We have both been tested. And yes whether i should be worrying and if anyone had experienced their partners not worrying... I take it as they feel really comfortable and of course know what may occur.

Quoting Jᴇᴢ:" My husband has never liked wearing condoms or pulling out   I think most men would prefer it that way ... [snip!] ... on implanon so I know nothing is going to happen with us once I'm on nexplanon, we'll continue not to use condoms/pulling out."

You know nothing will happen?

You can get pregnant on any birth control. It COULD happen

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" I hope you've been tested for STD's "new boyfriend" makes me think that you should be wrapping that thing"</blockquote>




Agreed.

Also OP, I got pregnant on the pill with my now two year old.

BD and I were like that and I got pregnant at 17 lol

Quoting Carlz17:" Sorry, it didnt really haha! We have both been tested. And yes whether i should be worrying and if anyone ... [snip!] ... had experienced their partners not worrying... I take it as they feel really comfortable and of course know what may occur."

No don't take it like he's not worried if you get pregnant.
Take it as he is a dumbass and isn't thinking about his future.

And I suggest unless you want to be a single mom, take your future into your own hands and putting a condom on his dick.

Oh... Haha! How did you both know -did you not get your period on the pill and realised?

RD. I was 17, BD had just turned 18, that damn BC pill lol.


OP sounds like you should be using a condom since you posted about missing a pill and worrying about it.