Being on top

DH hates me being on top- it doesn't 'work' for him. It works for me. But as a result,, he's always on top! I think he thinks it doesn't work because we tried with him sitting a few times, and I couldn't quite... bend it in that way?


I want to be on top! I want to handcuff his sorry ass to the bed and have my way with him.

But not if he's not going to get off.

How do you get REALLY good at being on top? I want to rock his frickin world not have him counting the minutes till he gets to go on top.

omg i LOVE handcuff && blindfolds! haha but SO hates my handcuffs, he freaks out.. lol

blind fold him
if you take away one of his senses like not being able to see he wont know whats going on then when you have worked him up to a point where he cant not enjoy it jump on top and have your wicked way with him

Do you think you're good on top?

I use to HATE being on top, I thought I sucked at it and would always concentrate on how good I was doing and it would just turn me off. Then I got with BD and I was always on top and got lots of practice. Now I love being on top  

Try leaning back and resting your hands on his knees and grinding hard on him. My honey loves that. Or you could try being on top but haing your back to his stomach.

Maybe he just enjoys being in control?

I hate being on top but DH wants me to be. I just dont have the confidence for it, I think. I dont feel attrative and plus I have NO idea what id be doing.

Quoting lolajessup:" Maybe he just enjoys being in control?"

He's going to learn to get the frig over it.

I think I lack confidence- I feel tubby so I don't give it my all, perhaps. Blindfolding may help.

While your pregnant can you be on top?

Quoting Tiffany [17weeks]:" While your pregnant can you be on top?"

When I was pregnant was the only time I could be on top!

Go for it!

Quoting Tiffany [17weeks]:" While your pregnant can you be on top?"

oh course.. i perfer it, other wise SO squishes my belly l0l

so cuff him, do your thing till your happy, then finish with a bj. he'll love it

I usually go on top until I am "done" and then he gets behind me.

I understand him because being on top is the only way I can get off...weird. lol

My hubby likes the on top he likes fast hard and very pornographic which embarrasses the hell out of me

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Grind  

This is only good if he is not circumcised