re: Being on top

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany [17weeks]:</b>" While your pregnant can you be on top?"</blockquote>




Why would you not be able to?

Quoting Flag:" DH hates me being on top- it doesn't 'work' for him. It works for me. But as a result,, he's always on ... [snip!] ... get REALLY good at being on top? I want to rock his frickin world not have him counting the minutes till he gets to go on top."

some guys just need to be ''in control'' to ''get off'' ......when i am on top (after i ''get mine'') dh grabs my hips and thrusts upward to ''get his''. dont take it personnal, the signal to ejaculate actully comes from a guys spine (strange ,i know)....google it, its pretty interesting

I tend to these things when I am on top that he looovees

ITS ABOUT TO GET REAL lol!


I swirl around my hips (takes some practice of not just going side to side)
I grind with my hands on his knees whether facing or not facing him
I choke him (not too much but enough to make the blood flow for that weird release)
When i try to romance it up he likes when i make my back into a you and ride very slow and kiss his neck or bite his lips giving him a different rush of ecstasy .

I used to be very cautious being on top because I thought I was so awkward.
Always have confidence and dont second guess yourself! If you do your body will tense up and he will realize that its not working out for you either..Hope i gave something good in there lol

Hey... Just because he can't get off that way doesn't mean you can't have sex on top and then switch to another position later on  

It doesn't do anything for mine, either. I mean, he will do it once in awhile to mix it up and for the visual, but he's not into it. Plus, we're both overweight so it's kind of a difficult and awkward position for us. Now, when I was with thinner dudes? Hell yeah, I could get up there and ride like a cowgirl! It doesn't do much for me, though. I always did it for the guy because he asked me to.

Quoting Janell C.:" I tend to these things when I am on top that he looovees ITS ABOUT TO GET REAL lol! I swirl around ... [snip!] ... do your body will tense up and he will realize that its not working out for you either..Hope i gave something good in there lol"

LOL "its about to get real"!!
i think we're sex twins hahaha was that weird?
i love being on top and so does he. im glad im not the only one who chokes her man haha (took some convincing)

Quoting ~Brandi Rene~:" LOL "its about to get real"!! i think we're sex twins hahaha was that weird? i love being on top and so does he. im glad im not the only one who chokes her man haha (took some convincing) "

LOL!
No its not weird at all! I love sex and I know how to give it good after practicing. Heck Ive been approached on the correct way to lay it down a man.  
Youre not strange for man handling a man. Sometimes they want it but are too afraid to say it because they think its "gay" of them to ask. Being aggressive is sexy as long as its not too overpowering!

I just have DH lay completely flat on the bed and then sit straight up. Sometimes I bounce up and down. Sometimes we lay chest to chest and he does the work.