the queen of LE QUESTIONS is back

How paranoid were you girls about your pregnancy. I find myself researching symptoms of possible miscarriages and making sure i dont have them.
I am terrified. I know that in 5 days my chances of miscarriage decrease significantly, but i am scared. I love this baby. I love this baby more than anything in the world. I do everything i am supposed to. I just have worked so hard. In my previous pregnancies I never made it this far.

Please just keep me and bean in your thoughts. I want to be stress free and happy and a good mom. I have never wanted anything more than this baby.
I truly hope its my time.

i did!!

You are going to drive yourself crazy!!

I did at the beginning of my pregnancy.. and I still do now...

but in the end it only makes things worse.

Don't worry too much.. believe me.. I probably do enough worrying for all of you!

Quoting *Jayme*:“ You are going to drive yourself crazy!! I did at the beginning of my pregnancy.. and I still do now... ... [snip!] ... in the end it only makes things worse. Don't worry too much.. believe me.. I probably do enough worrying for all of you!”

I know but i freak out cause girls are like I saw the heartbeat at 8 weeks and then at 11 weeks it was gone.

Oh well. I need to stop freaking I cant change the plan that is made for me.

i did that towards the begining when i had terrible morning sickness and migraines, but once those stopped (around like 16 weeks) i realized all the anxeity and stress was probably more damaging than helpful i stopped. sometimes i require a reminder to just relax and things will be alright as long as i do the things i should do and not do the things i shouldn't do.

Quoting Lauren prego is my ego:“ How paranoid were you girls about your pregnancy. I find myself researching symptoms of possible miscarriages ... [snip!] ... I want to be stress free and happy and a good mom. I have never wanted anything more than this baby. I truly hope its my time.”

i was always nervous. And well when i passed the mark where a misscarriage is reduced i kinds felt a little better. But i mean i can sit here and tell you not to worry, but i know you will. Everything happens for a reason, and well since you never got this far im sure it is your time to become a mommy.

Quoting I LOVE MY GABBY WABBY!!!:“ i was always nervous. And well when i passed the mark where a misscarriage is reduced i kinds felt ... [snip!] ... you will. Everything happens for a reason, and well since you never got this far im sure it is your time to become a mommy.”

Thank you, and i hope you are right.

Quoting Lauren prego is my ego:“ I know but i freak out cause girls are like I saw the heartbeat at 8 weeks and then at 11 weeks it was gone. Oh well. I need to stop freaking I cant change the plan that is made for me.”

Everything will be okay. If you are too worried.. I heard you can rent a heartbeat machine for like $20 a month online somewhere. But unless you are a high risk.. I am sure things will be fine.. don't stress out.. that can only make things worse.

I don't know what you believe in.... but I think that there is a purpose for everything. I kept telling myself that if I didn't make it through the pregnancy that there was probably something wrong and I didn't want my baby to live a horrible life with medical problems. I know that there is a plan for everyone.

The worrying never really gets better, but you can try to put it in the back of your mind as much as possible. Remember that your baby feels a lot of what you feel. I have to tell myself that every day.

Quoting *Jayme*:“ Everything will be okay. If you are too worried.. I heard you can rent a heartbeat machine for like ... [snip!] ... of your mind as much as possible. Remember that your baby feels a lot of what you feel. I have to tell myself that every day.”

Thank you, your words actually helped alot, they put me at ease for the first time all day.

I'm 27 weeks and I still fear I'll lose my baby. Sometimes it crosses my mind "what if i have a mentally challenged child? or with down syndrome? or autistic? or with deformities?" it bothers me and gets me worried but i just stop thinking about it..just take care of yourself don't stress out on it. stressing is bad