Special education preschool

Im trying to find out what you would consider as red flags for a special needs child in a public preschool? I have a 3 year old with autism and speech delays. He has been going to this preschool since september and at first did fine and now he screams everytime we pull in and we have to pull him in there. He only goes there 2 times a week and goes to daycare the rest of the week and does not act like that. I am starting to think something is up with it. How do i know if there is something wrong more than just him having trouble adjusting? Any advice for how i can handle this?

I would try and show up at random times if possible or speak to some of the other parents to see if they have concerns as well if you are not able to show up randomly is there someone who can to check out the situation?

IO wish I could help, My Son is Autistic and had SPD and a Speech delay. He LOVES his class and school where he wakes me up EVERY DAY with his back pack wanting to get on the bus.


Talk to his teachers and the specialists who work in his class and see if they can fill you in.

I saw a thing of a dad who audio taped the interaction in the classroom by putting a tape recorder in his pocket for a week or something and caught a whole bunch of inappropriate/mean things being said to his son.

I hope he's just having trouble adjusting and the teachers/students are being nice to him.

I asked his therapists and they said they are going to check into it and see how they say he is adjusting and how he is acting there. I cant really stop in unexpected because they dont let us in the classroom. We drop them off outside.