Quoting A mother & wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" So you can afford a spa day and cruises, ... [snip!] ... doctor bills and hospital bills. But now we are back on track and about to buy our house and go on yer another cruise. Shot me."
I'm glad you're on track. I'm glad you can afford the luxuries now. We're getting into the same boat. You seem to think I have no idea how it is to have it hard, but you're sorely mistaken. We've been right on the line when it comes to assistance for over a year, daycare is out of the question because of costs, and by the time we'd pay daycare bills, until I graduate in the spring, the cost of daycare would soak up my check, making me working be pointless.
I had nothing to say personally about the OP, or you, in case you didn't notice. All I've said is that that name was a terrible choice, I just didn't say it while farting out a rainbow of happy. I was having a smurf day, it happens. To which you said the same thing, in a different way. THEN someone else said something about using the word Ghetto being racist, and I clarified that it's not. Ghetto does not mean black people, or mexicans. It means urban, like living in the city.
You decided to jump my case and accuse me of bashing her. I never bashed her
. But I thought the name was atrocious. I had people tell me the same thing about DD's name, but I brushed it off. I know the meaning behind the name, that's what matters, not someone's opinion online. But as a former assistant manager, and other managers on here have said, names like OPs often get skipped in the hiring process. I wasn't being mean, but honest. The more out in the wind the name is, the higher the chance of it getting skipped. It happens. You're the one who started bashing me on a personal level.
The OP even understood why we were saying something. Why do you have to keep dragging it on and on. In case you didn't notice, not once on here have I ever brought looks or weight into a thread. Because THAT is immature and cruel.