Quoting Ruby Runion-Brown:" it's your baby if you wasn't ready you don't have to make him go. it's not being childish if it's in the best intrest of your child"
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" What? If we could just keep our kids with us because we aren't ready to have them go, they would stay with us forever. That's his DAD. They both have a right to see each other and grow a bond."
Quoting Ruby Runion-Brown:" she has a right to say when another female meets her child. he needs to be serious about her before introducing her to his child. if she feels like it wont last she has a right to express her wishs"
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" No actually she doesn't. Who her child's father decides to bring into HIS child's life is his choice. ... [snip!] ... choice. Unless she can prove that the people he has around the child are a danger to him in anyway, she has no say so at all."that's not the case here unless your married at the time of the childs birth. it's the way i feel about it. i didn't tell her how i felt about it to argue with someone else.
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" No actually she doesn't. Who her child's father decides to bring into HIS child's life is his choice. ... [snip!] ... choice. Unless she can prove that the people he has around the child are a danger to him in anyway, she has no say so at all."
Quoting First Time Momma(::" Right now he really has NO rights to the baby he's not even on the birth certificate..."
Quoting Leannah Carrasco:" I say that you have every right to feel uncomfortable with the situation but give her a chance til you ... [snip!] ... When you arent comfortable thats for certain..... But try and meet them somewhere so that you can get to know her first..."i agree you should meet her before allowing LO to. 11wks is really young to have someone take your child. DD is 15wks & i wont even let no one keep her more than a couple hours here & there. if DH & myself were to split up & he had a new girlfriend i wouldn't want my child around her until i knew he was 100% certain him & the new woman were going to be together for awhile & i'mnot talking about just a year or 2. but i feel the same way about myself i wouldn't put anyone in her life from myside unless i knew they were going to be around for awhile, but i had people ripped out of my life at a drop of a dime. & i've watched my niece & nephews go through it. so i seen & felt the emotions envolved 1st hand, it's not easy for a LO to get attached & wonder why someone wasn't around anymore.