Quoting Leogrl89:" I have a court date set next week to go in front of the judge but I'm kind of unsure if I want to go ... [snip!] ... pissed BUT I also feel as if i call off the whole thing he'll have it easy and just disappear if he wanted. What should I do?"
Formula and diapers are nice but that's only a few hundred/ month, tops. Is he helping with insurance, daycare, etc.?
If I weren't with the father of my children, I would want a legal financial agreement to be certain that all of their needs are met.