re: any fetus experts? i am so lost right now :( ***TMI***

Quoting Kitten Power:" i work as a receptionist in a hotel  "

a receptionist in a hotel isnt a good job.. key word "job" not "career"

that's sad you think you have a good job and can support a baby at 19 working at some lowly front desk.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" thats a bit judgmental. im not married and TTC 2 out of 3 of my babies. I worked 2 jobs at 19 and made more then, than I do now : /"

yeah of course its judgmental. i didnt say it wasnt. doesnt make it any less true...

you think its a good idea to ttc at 19, unmarried, while working at the front desk of a hotel? please tell me you agree with this. i usually really like you and agree with a lot of the things you say

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" a receptionist in a hotel isnt a good job.. key word "job" not "career" that's sad you think you have a good job and can support a baby at 19 working at some lowly front desk. "

she could be on government assitance and not working..

damn your being a bitch right now! lol i was a hostess at the melting pot and working at starbucks.. not everyone needs a "career" in their life to be "sucessful"

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" yeah of course its judgmental. i didnt say it wasnt. doesnt make it any less true... you think its ... [snip!] ... desk of a hotel? please tell me you agree with this. i usually really like you and agree with a lot of the things you say "

didnt say it was a GOOD idea. but i dont know the girl, her TTC doesnt effect me. she has her own place.. has a job, out of HS. it could be worse.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" she could be on government assitance and not working.. damn your being a bitch right now! lol ... [snip!] ... lol i was a hostess at the melting pot and working at starbucks.. not everyone needs a "career" in their life to be "sucessful""

oh well, i just think your future kids deserve more from their parent than trying to conceive as a teenager with a lowly minimum wage job. thats just me, i guess i expect too much, and want more for my children than most people.

you're right. settling is just fine for some people. and she apparently is one of them

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" oh well, i just think your future kids deserve more from their parent than trying to conceive as a teenager ... [snip!] ... more for my children than most people. you're right. settling is just fine for some people. and she apparently is one of them"

i just dont give a smurf...she can live her life how she wants. if its not what she expected, thats her own problem. its hard as smurf to raise a kid at 19 on a minimum wage job.. but doable!!!!

I am sorry your going through this. I was really hoping for something positive for you. It defiantly sucks either way miscarriage or not. I am hoping both of our time comes very soon.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" a receptionist in a hotel isnt a good job.. key word "job" not "career" that's sad you think you have a good job and can support a baby at 19 working at some lowly front desk. "

smurf you, you self centred little bitch, who the smurf do you think you are coming onto this thread, saying smurf like that to me, i know whats good for my life, i have a new home waiting to be signed by me, AJOB, is better than no job... i dont care what you think, please smurf off, i'm in a smurfing mood this morning, and bitches like you aint worth my breath.

sorry if i offended anybody out there!!!

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" a receptionist in a hotel isnt a good job.. key word "job" not "career" that's sad you think you have a good job and can support a baby at 19 working at some lowly front desk. "

so what do you do as a "job" or "career" then?? :L

Ignore them love....it's none of their business what you do with YOUR life. If they want to walk around with their noses up in the air let them, eventually they will trip and fall flat on their faces, karma is wonderful that way. I will be 26 this month and I haven't gone to college and I support my daughter just fine. I started TTC at 20 and had my daughter just after I turned 21. I'm sorry you posted hoping for advice in what is a confusing and difficult time and instead you were attacked by someone who is overly self righteous and cruel. There is no need for behavior like that from adults.


Just a little side note to anyone deciding to open their mouth to me. I only have to work part time and make over 2.5k a month. I pay for everything on my own cell phone, car payment, etc and I never went to college. Did I mention I'm a bartender....yea so don't give me your bs about needing a career to be a good parent. Ha! I bet my tattoos make me a criminal too. You should be ashamed of yourselves!!

Wow!!!! The uk's minimum wage is higher than it is in the us. Some people just need to keep their nasty comments to themselves. I was 20 bouncing from job to job when I got pregnant and now I'm about to graduate with a degree. Its been hard trying to work and go to school while being a single mom but that doesnt make me a bad mom. Kids at any age even with a good job is hard. Nobody has any right to put anyone down on this site. If you have nothing better to do but belittle someone you don't know then that's pretty damn sad.

OP My periods have been CRAZY since DH and I started TTC again, they have been super late to the point where I thought I was for sure pregnant and they have been very heavy and painful, passing weird clots and thick stuff

Quoting Tat2dmama86:" Ignore them love....it's none of their business what you do with YOUR life. If they want to walk around ... [snip!] ... about needing a career to be a good parent. Ha! I bet my tattoos make me a criminal too. You should be ashamed of yourselves!!"

thanks its just a little PROOF that people can do just fine in any job  

Quoting angelica j:" Wow!!!! The uk's minimum wage is higher than it is in the us. Some people just need to keep their nasty ... [snip!] ... put anyone down on this site. If you have nothing better to do but belittle someone you don't know then that's pretty damn sad."

its not as bad as cafemom, which i'm no longer on lol

Quoting Julie&Collin:" OP My periods have been CRAZY since DH and I started TTC again, they have been super late to the point ... [snip!] ... point where I thought I was for sure pregnant and they have been very heavy and painful, passing weird clots and thick stuff"

mine is like clockwork, come on the time never late, thats why i suspected a MC...