Yesterday coming back from work I caught my 8 month boy naked playing with the nanny with the inflatable pool with flavour indoors(she was in t-shirt and jeans and he was butt naked).
Now, she is very affectionate with my baby whenever she bathes him and changes him, she tickles play-bites and kisses him on tummy and butt ... What bothered me was that she did not tell me out before doing this

What do you think?Shouldl I tell her something?
How would you handle a similar situation?

ps.otherwise, it happens that I find myself in the same situation with my sister or my sister in law
but they are relatives and so I think that even in the same situation is very different. With my sister or sister in law I don't see the problem if they do naked time or this gestures

don't you think so?
What do you think?

Thanks a lot
S

What? Are you for real like accusing this woman of some weird sexual act?


I think she's just playing with baby. I wouldn't put a diaper on them in water, I'd let them go naked to avoid a big ass diaper balloon.

I think you are paranoid. Is your name Sheila or Suz?

Huh?

Someone is biting your childs butt?

What the smurf?

http://www.pregnancy.org/bulletinboards/face-off-debate-arena-205/baby-toddler-having-naked-time-without-mom-parents-698442/

Ummmm you sound a little crazy.

Please keep Ur kids butt away from peoples mouths. Anyones.


Weird

It sounds ok. I mean it's not like she was naked in the pool with him or anything. he's 8 months old. If he was older, it might be weird. I think maybe I'm just numb to the whole naked kid running around thing.

I would tell her not to kiss his butt, that's the only thing that would bug me.
Kissing the tummy I don't think is a bad thing. And if you don't want him running around naked then tell her. She probably will respect that. She probably just is comfortable and feel like family to your baby so doesn't see it as a big deal.

So I wouldn't be concerned but definitely just talk to her about what makes you uncomfortable.

I can barely make sense of what you said. But I think you're a bit nuts.

Quoting Ah TAM:" Please keep Ur kids butt away from peoples mouths. Anyones. Weird"

    

Um...yeah not seeing the big deal here at all.

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" http://www.pregnancy.org/bulletinboards/face-off-debate-arena-205/baby-toddler-having-naked-time-without-mom-parents-698442/"

Guess she didn't get the answers she wanted there.

the whole biting the butt thing is kinda not clean and gross! but other then that everything else seems ok!

I love how you changed the OP from Suz to S.