He wants sex , but I'm TIRED !

Well , I'm only 17 weeks pregnant but I'm always tired. Doesn't matter how much rest i get.Up until recently me & my BD were having "quality-time" on the regular. lol. But now , I just don't have the energy.Which is weird. But he does sweet things for me all the time. like breakfast in bed. or today when he picked me up from class, I come home and there's lunch on the table. After I eat I'm laying on the sofa and he comes & rubs my feet. Then he actually runs me a bubble bath.

In my head I'm thinking he's only doing this so he can have his "quality-time" lol. But it's not like that. But he does all this for me by choice. I wanna make it up to him. i would like to have " quality-time".


Does anyone have any ideas on healthy ways to boost my energy.. also any positions where i really don't have to do anything. lol      

Why do you call it "quality time"? Just call it sex, you're a grown up.

And vitamin b6 and fresh fruit will help boost your energy. But during pregnancy your sex drug just might decrease. If you don't want to have sex, don't worry about it.

Quoting MommaSav2:" Why do you call it "quality time"? Just call it sex, you're a grown up. And vitamin b6 and fresh fruit ... [snip!] ... boost your energy. But during pregnancy your sex drug just might decrease. If you don't want to have sex, don't worry about it."

lol... it's a habbit. but i appreciate the input.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mel_brown:</b>" lol... it's a habbit. but i appreciate the input.  "</blockquote>




My husband used to call it excersizing. Drove me nuts.

There are a lot of ways to have quality time without sex. But, as far as sex goes.. What gets you in the mood? Take vitamins, watch porn, whatever it takes. He may just need yo understand you aren't up for out right now

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" Why do you call it "quality time"? Just call it sex, you're a grown up. And vitamin b6 and fresh fruit ... [snip!] ... boost your energy. But during pregnancy your sex drug just might decrease. If you don't want to have sex, don't worry about it."</blockquote>




Idk I wasn't into sex very much when I was pregnant either, oh well... It also kinda hurt... Like it was too tight or something.

Quoting Sweetheart...*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" Why do you call it "quality time"? Just call ... [snip!] ... I wasn't into sex very much when I was pregnant either, oh well... It also kinda hurt... Like it was too tight or something."

Increased blood flow. Sometimes it can make it tight and hurt, sometimes it can make it great.


OP, if you really don't want it, maybe you can help him out a little. A BJ now and then or a hand job. Doggy Style is a great position, you can lean on your elbows and let him do the work. Or laying on your sides.

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" Increased blood flow. Sometimes it can make it tight and hurt, sometimes it can make it great. OP, ... [snip!] ... or a hand job. Doggy Style is a great position, you can lean on your elbows and let him do the work. Or laying on your sides."

BJ & hand jobs are good but he always says " nothings like the real thing".lol. And with being sleepy the only other thing that kinda makes me nervous is that my BD can get " aggressive " I hate having to tell him to "ease up , slow down , not so hard" bc i really cant enjoy it if my mind is in another place.. i think i just need to get him to understand that too

I just sucked it up and put out every once in a while.
I'm an awesome actress. It didn't feel enjoy it at all while pregnant, but lordy did he think I did.  

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I just sucked it up and put out every once in a while. I'm an awesome actress. It didn't feel enjoy it at all while pregnant, but lordy did he think I did.  "

  

Watch pregnant porn to see positions, things may change.You may need to change your attitude, sex is not tiring, so you should try and enjoy it without stressing. Some women stress too much for being pregnant. Relax, pregnancy is a great time to enjoy sex

Quoting jess_Hunter:" Watch pregnant porn to see positions, things may change.You may need to change your attitude, sex is ... [snip!] ... and enjoy it without stressing. Some women stress too much for being pregnant. Relax, pregnancy is a great time to enjoy sex"

thank you  

I hope you can please yourself and your BD, Just try because you need to relax

Quoting jess_Hunter:" I hope you can please yourself and your BD, Just try because you need to relax"

I give my BD special attention when I'm not in the mood to have sex.. but i miss it... sex was always great.. like our bonding time. lol . so I'm trying to get over the whole " being tired" thing so we can get back to it..so BOTH of us can be happy