USUALLY I find myself here after a loss of a child, this tim

..... It wasn't my child. It was my cousin. 19 & she left behind a 2 month old baby girl. This weekend my cousin went to bed one night & never woke. She just got her GED & was getting life in order.
I got a call the morning of the 10th. I let it go to vm. But the message wasnt clear but something was wrong. I returned the call & I heard " Anna is dead" all that I could repeat is "no no no no no" over & over I couldn't believe the words I was hearing. She was young had life to live she had a dd to raise as she was doing great! I don't know many teen moms that even Bf.

The answers still not known. Was she hurting & none seen? Did she do this? But she wouldn't leave her baby?
Did her meds do this? Did she have a bad heart? What gave in so suddenly?..... A baby that will only see pictures & hear stories of her mother. What a shame...... Who's to blame? both girls didn't get that chance to do things like mother/daughters do.
 
Please hold your children regardless of what they do, they need you. Love your children like there isn't a tomorrow & capture every memory you can. Cause one day that maybe all you have. :'(
R.I.P. ANNA

I am so very sorry for your loss. I just got back from a funeral for one of my husband's best friends who committed suicide last week,

<blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" I am so very sorry for your loss. I just got back from a funeral for one of my husband's best friends who committed suicide last week,"</blockquote>




I'm sooooo very sorry. Im dreading the service I'll have to be medicated. It's just sooooo unreal.

  I'm so sorry.
So young, hell, she was my age. I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss.

Quoting Miss. Tiff:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" I am so very sorry for your loss. ... [snip!] ... I'm sooooo very sorry. Im dreading the service I'll have to be medicated. It's just sooooo unreal."

Thank you hun, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!

im so sorry for your loss. one of my biggest fears is leaving my child too early in life. im praying for you, your family, and that baby girl.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>"   I'm so sorry. So young, hell, she was my age. I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss."</blockquote>




Yes sooooo very young. & Ty for kind words. One min I'm ok next I can't stop thinking....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" Thank you hun, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!"</blockquote>




Tyvm

<blockquote><b>Quoting aubriesmom:</b>" im so sorry for your loss. one of my biggest fears is leaving my child too early in life. im praying for you, your family, and that baby girl. "</blockquote>




Thank you. It's scary although Babys father has been there & was there (he found his gf passed) & plans to get Allie back(social services took her that day to) & care for her. So daddy is feeling very lost since his whole family was ripped from him one morning.  

Quoting Miss. Tiff:" <blockquote><b>Quoting aubriesmom:</b>" im so sorry for your loss. one of my biggest ... [snip!] ... took her that day to) & care for her. So daddy is feeling very lost since his whole family was ripped from him one morning.  "

Why would social services take her?  
Jeez, poor guy. Sometimes the system is so smurfed up...

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Why would social services take her?   Jeez, poor guy. Sometimes the system is so smurfed up..."</blockquote>




Yes, they said it's precautions. *shrugs* she's ripped from everything she knows. I think it was wrong atleast give to family! He said he's getting her today & I'm hoping to meet her on Friday & hug get tight.

Quoting Miss. Tiff:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Why would social services take ... [snip!] ... I think it was wrong atleast give to family! He said he's getting her today & I'm hoping to meet her on Friday & hug get tight."

I hope he does. A baby that young needs family, if the family is able of course.
And that poor guy needs his baby girl right now, he's losing everything  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" I hope he does. A baby that young needs family, if the family is able of course. And that poor guy needs his baby girl right now, he's losing everything  "</blockquote>




Exactly & it breaks my heart! For him. Alot bc if that were to happen to me id be going smurfing crazy!

Quoting Miss. Tiff:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" I hope he does. A baby that young ... [snip!] ... Exactly & it breaks my heart! For him. Alot bc if that were to happen to me id be going smurfing crazy!"

I'd be so upset if I lost SO and then they took DD as a "precaution"
He needs that baby now more than ever  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" I'd be so upset if I lost SO and then they took DD as a "precaution" He needs that baby now more than ever  "</blockquote>




Yes he does.