Why? OMG

Sitting at the hospital because DH grandmother had to be out in ICU well my MIL is here and starts telling DH's aunt we expecting and I have no job! I want to yell at this women that DH makes more than enough money and that can take some time and enjoy my pregnancy!!! I want to let this evil woman who keeps sticking her nose my personal life that I have an interview today that I get checks from school which is more than enough to last me 3 months!!! OMG out of respect I am siting ranting on BG instead of going off on MIL while in the ICU waiting room. Ugh why do I have to deal with her? My life and what DH and I decide to do its not her business she doesn't raise our kids! It's so damn annoying!!! Thanks for listening to my annoying rant but I rather not let everyone in the lobby know my issues with this women. OMG I am trying to be nice and be supportive but its so damn hard I already told DH I will not be their home anymore but now I don't even want to be around for holidays!!! Like wtf is her issue?

Jealousy n old fashionedness. Don't let her get to u. U don't have to justify ur fi.ancestors to her. Id have said something smart back but that's me :p just ignore her she's not worth it. She wants to air ur laundry dirty or not let her just shows how immature she really is.

Does she do this often. I would pull her aside and quitely be like, "uhm, you need to shut the smurf up and stop telling people our business if you have a problem with me you need to speak directly to me but this is not the place nor the time to discuss it."

<blockquote><b>Quoting DifferentDay:</b>" Jealousy n old fashionedness. Don't let her get to u. U don't have to justify ur fi.ancestors to her. ... [snip!] ... :p just ignore her she's not worth it. She wants to air ur laundry dirty or not let her just shows how immature she really is."</blockquote>




But it's so damn annoying! Like what the hell? I'm in the process of quitting smoking during this pregnancy and cut down a lot and she is driving me so bonkers that I am craving a cig more than ever!!

I had a hard time understanding that last couple lines, are you living with her? My mil gave us the "I'm just worried about you guys" talk when we got pregnant with number and with number three. I just reassured her that we are fine and if we couldn't comfortably afford for me to be a SAHM, I wouldn't be one.

Btw, you're due the same day as me!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" Does she do this often. I would pull her aside and quitely be like, "uhm, you need to shut the smurf up ... [snip!] ... business if you have a problem with me you need to speak directly to me but this is not the place nor the time to discuss it.""</blockquote>



Oh DH looked at me then texted me saying he will say something to her because he knows I will say it well bitchy so we're waiting to leave and see what the nurses say and see what the hell her problem is. This just started recently when we told her we were expecting.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" I had a bar time understanding that last couple lines, are you living with her? My mil gave us the "I'm ... [snip!] ... we are fine and if we couldn't comfortably afford for me to be a SAHM, I wouldn't be one. Btw, you're due the same day as me!"</blockquote>




Yay! Hell no we have our own home. We're at the hospital with DH grandmother waiting on news and his mother is here. Like just now I got up and threw something away and she started snickering something.

Let him handle it. Its his mom. Hubby n I have a rule my mom- I handle, his he handles. Ignore her for now or......... u could air some of her laundry like Idk but this- ur son makes plenty for me to be a sahm sucks ur hubby left u instead. Lol Idk something that would shut her up in a heartbeat. But really? Its not worth it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting DifferentDay:</b>" Let him handle it. Its his mom. Hubby n I have a rule my mom- I handle, his he handles. Ignore her for ... [snip!] ... be a sahm sucks ur hubby left u instead. Lol Idk something that would shut her up in a heartbeat. But really? Its not worth it."</blockquote>


Lol. You make me giggle. Thanks!

<blockquote><b>Quoting s00nt0be04:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" I had a bar time understanding that last couple ... [snip!] ... waiting on news and his mother is here. Like just now I got up and threw something away and she started snickering something."</blockquote>




Well I think keeping your mouth shut for the time being is for the best. She's vein wildly inappropriate talking about this at a time like that and you're being th bigger person for letting you for now. But make sure your DH says something to her when he can.

That or say what is it MIL? Jealous ur son n I sm*rf so much n u can't get any from anyone without them being drunk first?? () : )

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting s00nt0be04:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" ... [snip!] ... like that and you're being th bigger person for letting you for now. But make sure your DH says something to her when he can."</blockquote>




I think so too. He knows me way to well to not say anything what so ever. Lol he knows I like to explode and he knows I don't hold back anything. So to save an argument he will either call or say something before the day is over.

My MIL is the same... Seriously we just told her we were coming to visit a few weeks back and she told us no because we don't have the gas money... Bitch you don't know what's in our bank account lol. I also quit my job to do school and we can't even tell her... She honest to god calls and nags at us about our life and tells us what we can and can't do, and always says something about money - we live like 6 hours away, lol. She called yesterday and asked what day she could come visit and we told her no because she doesn't have enough money and she can visit when we decide she has enough and when she gets a job bahahaha

<blockquote><b>Quoting DifferentDay:</b>" That or say what is it MIL? Jealous ur son n I sm*rf so much n u can't get any from anyone without them being drunk first?? () : )"</blockquote>




OMG sad thing is that's partially true!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rd.:</b>" My MIL is the same... Seriously we just told her we were coming to visit a few weeks back and she told ... [snip!] ... her no because she doesn't have enough money and she can visit when we decide she has enough and when she gets a job bahahaha"</blockquote>




  evil Mils! Least u set urs straight ha!

... I guessed lol but yeah figured id at least make ya laugh a little on the meantime.