Regret

I had a sergical termination a little over a week ago. i fell pregnant even though i was using cotrecption, a couple of days before i found out about the pregnancy i found out my boyfirend tried cheating with my best friend and various other girls and im still suffering from post natal depression from my first child. Hense my decision. I know it was for the best and it would of been selfish to keep my baby but i cant help feeling like i made the wrong decision and thinking what if..!? And now i utterly regret my decision. I feel like i havent got the right to mourn or grieve as it was my fault. Has anyone else felt like this? x

I'm sorry sweetie   It's a rollercoaster of emotions, that's for sure. I hope you can come to terms with your decision and will some day be comfortable with it. You absolutely have the right to mourn or grieve or feel any way you feel.

 
I haven't personally had to experience this, but I'm sorry you're hurting. Maybe you would benefit from seeing a counselor?

*hugs*

im sorry babe!


TALK ABOUT IT thats the #1 advice i can give you based on myself, thats what helped me.

there will be ups and downs, but with time you will realize that it was the best decision possible at that time...there will still be days that will hurt and be a pain, but in general it DOES get easier, and y0u do think less of it than 24 / 7.

know that if you need anythin just PM me!

Oh you're all so lovely. Thankyou! xx

You have absolutely every right to feel the way you do. I had mine back in July and for the longest time I felt like smurf, like I had made the wrong choice. Just because it's the right choice doesn't mean it's always the easiest. There's hard days and then there's easy days. Feel free to PM me if you want to<3

Mine will be 3 years in January, and I can't help but think about it all the time and feel terrible. But, like you, I know it was the best for the situation I was in at the time. It is still a struggle sometimes but definitely helps by talking about it. There are a lot of wonderful ladies on here that are very helpful.

Thankyou All. xxxx