how do you...

Besides sucking Dick how do you show your SO you appreciate him? I can't do much physical of anything around the house telp out. I take care of our son a lot. But I can't stand or do much without getting horrible bh so im trying to think of something out of our norm that I could do. He's not the sappiest guy either.

Cook him a meal every day and make his lunch for work, let him watch whatever he wants when he's home, and just do little things to make his life easier.

Yeah I found making his lunch was a major help n put a smile on his face. He also shaves his head so I would do that for him while he just sat n relaxed for that 10-15mins

Besides sucking dick lol I love that added comment, you should treat him to a date night and take him to se a movie of his choice or eat at his favorite place

<blockquote><b>Quoting j.val2:</b>" Besides sucking dick lol I love that added comment, you should treat him to a date night and take him to se a movie of his choice or eat at his favorite place"</blockquote>




we go to dinner fairly often. But no one babysits for us. So it's not like we could see a movie. But we watch them at home.

<blockquote><b>Quoting .:Roman's Mama:.:</b>" Yeah I found making his lunch was a major help n put a smile on his face. He also shaves his head so I would do that for him while he just sat n relaxed for that 10-15mins"</blockquote>




I've offered that, but he won't take a lunch. He has to buy one. And I do cut his hair and shave his face when I cut it. If I feel I can stand that long. But he thinks that's just something I do and doesn't think that's special.

<blockquote><b>Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:</b>" Cook him a meal every day and make his lunch for work, let him watch whatever he wants when he's home, and just do little things to make his life easier."</blockquote>




By the end of the day I usually can't stand long enough to cook anything. Plus it would take him making the meat. meat makes me sick during pregnancy. So I don't cook often. but he would rather go out anyways cuz it's less dishes for him. Lol he is only a part time student. It's not like he is working 40 hours a week he is in class for about 9 a week. I couldn't handle him being gone any longer (there is time between and bus rides make him stay out long hours) but my pregnancy this time has made things very difficult. I had to quit school. The strain of everything has just been too much.

sounds corny but maybe make a cd of songs that remind you of him/your relationship? even if theyre funny or silly?? im sorry youre having such a rough time OP!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brittney Ivanov:</b>" sounds corny but maybe make a cd of songs that remind you of him/your relationship? even if theyre funny or silly?? im sorry youre having such a rough time OP! "</blockquote>

thanks. I had my son in Oct of 11 via c section. Had my iud slip out and cause me to become anemic then had my gallbladder surgery and got pregnant again all in 4mo. My body just can't take it. I will try to make him a playlist. I don't know that he would listen to a cd.

Scratch his back, fix him his favorite foods, just things like that. My DH doesn't really want sex very often and he's not really big on bjs, so food and pampering are pretty much all I can do lol

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brittney Ivanov:</b>" sounds corny but maybe make a cd of songs ... [snip!] ... again all in 4mo. My body just can't take it. I will try to make him a playlist. I don't know that he would listen to a cd."

Wow... This is exactly what happened to me as well. I had my DD, got the IUD, had my gallbladder out, and when she was almost 4 months old my IUD slipped out and I got pregnant again.

A lot of times I think that the things I do for my fiance are nothing special...until he tells me how much they mean to him. So having dinner made, cutting his hair (in my case shaving his head), giving him time to spend on his hobbies, (basically just taking care of him in ways that I'm able to) lets him know I appreciate all he does for our family. He understands my limitations with a newborn, so when I've folded laundry or cleaned the kitchen and living room, he knows how much effort it has taken to get it done due to not being able to put the baby down most days and he knows I do it so he can come home to a semi-clean house. Trust me, if he really loves you, he appreciates the little things more than you know.

my s/o stays on his danm ps3 when hes home and it bothers me sometimes but i dont say anything cus its his break from work ...... ps . its the only tv we have so that means im stuck watching him murder some virtual soliders ...lol

are you on bedrest? because if not.. and it's an uncomplicated pregnancy.. good grief. Pregnancy isn't a disability. Many people work right up until they deliver. What if he didn't cook for you? you wouldnt eat? not standing long enough to even cook isn't even healthy for you unless you're having complications.

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" are you on bedrest? because if not.. and it's an uncomplicated pregnancy.. good grief. Pregnancy isn't ... [snip!] ... for you? you wouldnt eat? not standing long enough to even cook isn't even healthy for you unless you're having complications."</blockquote>




I'm sorry if you have a hard time reading what I have to say, but no need to be rude. Yes I have issues and am considered high risk.

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" are you on bedrest? because if not.. and it's ... [snip!] ... if you have a hard time reading what I have to say, but no need to be rude. Yes I have issues and am considered high risk."

same thing i thought! i am not even high risk and my s/o does almost everything for me ! he just loves to baby me and i love getting spoiled by him , he thinks he needs to take care of me cus im carrying his baby and i love his attention and help....