Quoting lil*Mama*Bearô:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brittney Ivanov:</b>" sounds corny but maybe make a cd of songs ... [snip!] ... again all in 4mo. My body just can't take it. I will try to make him a playlist. I don't know that he would listen to a cd."
Wow... This is exactly what happened to me as well. I had my DD, got the IUD, had my gallbladder out, and when she was almost 4 months old my IUD slipped out and I got pregnant again.
A lot of times I think that the things I do for my fiance are nothing special...until he tells me how much they mean to him. So having dinner made, cutting his hair (in my case shaving his head), giving him time to spend on his hobbies, (basically just taking care of him in ways that I'm able to) lets him know I appreciate all he does for our family. He understands my limitations with a newborn, so when I've folded laundry or cleaned the kitchen and living room, he knows how much effort it has taken to get it done due to not being able to put the baby down most days and he knows I do it so he can come home to a semi-clean house. Trust me, if he really loves you, he appreciates the little things more than you know.