Quoting Unique Mama:" If they are legally married then him smurfing anyone else is considered cheating, whether he considers them on a 'break' or not."
Quoting Rawkel.:" OP, I don't know if the Army is the same, but do you still need to give temp custody to someone before you leave? Is it going to be BD?"
Quoting Rawkel.:" I really hope that whatever happens is for the best! Good luck, and you're about to start a new chapter ... [snip!] ... what it's like to go through training, those letters were what got me through the days. If you want to just let me know!"
Quoting D335 NUT$:" Thank you that would be lovely!"
Quoting Raptor Jesus:" Maybe I'm old fashioned but I would never divorce over my husband needing space and "hanging out" with ... [snip!] ... there and I also know that plenty of women get along just fine as single mothers in this kind of situation. Good luck. "
Quoting Unique Mama:" Anyone who would stay with a husband who cheated on them a ton is...a very special lady. I am sorry he did that D335, that is unforgivable "
Quoting D335 NUT$:" He made out with the chick and says he "likes" her. I asked him to go to counselling with me and he says he would just get pissed off. and thank you "Yikes... I couldn't tell whether he had been physical with this woman based on your original post. Honestly, a marriage can survive infidelity but it sounds like neither of you really want to do that (and that's okay--what you really need to focus on is what makes you and your child happy and if that doesn't involve being with him then leave).
Quoting Raptor Jesus:" Yikes... I couldn't tell whether he had been physical with this woman based on your original post. Honestly, ... [snip!] ... being with him then leave). Besides, if he's not willing to put in the work to save your marriage then why should you?"