Quoting Devil Duckie:" put your damn foot down. He's crying hysterically because he knows you're a push over. every time he ... [snip!] ... old sleeps with us, but when I tell her she needs to sleep in her own room, she does it. Sometimes she does it on her own. "
I agree with this complety.
though i dont know the problem so i cant say from experience, My LO wont sleep with us, ha ive tried. he gets too worked up. im sure if we did when he was an infant then he still would want to though.
i agree, put your foot down, and the more he cries have some sort of punishment thing, like for every 15 min of crying then he has less play time or something.
if he is legitimately scared though idk what i would do.
it must be so annoying having slept with a kid in the bed for the past 6 years though,,,