9 days late...BFN's

9 days late...still nothing but BFN's. I swear it was so much easier when you aren't trying to get pregnant to get pregnant. With my son, I wasn't even planning on getting pregnant. 10 days after missed period I realized I was late and it turned to + as soon as the pee hit the stick. Now i'm 9 days late and nothing. I'm never late and now i'm just confused and just want to know and i've read the longer you go without a + the more likely it is you aren't. Just really want this to be our month! I hope AF isn't playing some cruel joke!

Sorry just needed to get things off my chest!!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheryl Michelle:</b>" 9 days late...still nothing but BFN's. I swear it was so much easier when you aren't trying to get pregnant ... [snip!] ... really want this to be our month! I hope AF isn't playing some cruel joke! Sorry just needed to get things off my chest!!!!"</blockquote>




It could be stress doing that... but listen, don't worry too much about trying. The more you worry about it the harder it'll be to conceive. I'm hopin for the best for you. And you very welk could be pregnant but the hormones could be too low for the tests to detect. Wait another week or two and try another test if you don't start. Hope this helps

Quoting Angeleyes1372:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheryl Michelle:</b>" 9 days late...still nothing but BFN's. ... [snip!] ... could be too low for the tests to detect. Wait another week or two and try another test if you don't start. Hope this helps"

I'll def try. Even though I said Saturday I wasn't going to test until Thursday. that didn't go very well lol. I think I've become a POAS addict as they are called. But I will def wait another week or so and test again if she hasn't shown up FX

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheryl Michelle:</b>" I'll def try. Even though I said Saturday I wasn't going to test until Thursday. that didn't go very ... [snip!] ... I've become a POAS addict as they are called. But I will def wait another week or so and test again if she hasn't shown up FX"</blockquote>




I know just what you mean. Just try not to stress. I know easier said than done. I'm keepin ya in my thoughts n prayers.

Quoting Angeleyes1372:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheryl Michelle:</b>" I'll def try. Even though I said Saturday ... [snip!] ... I know just what you mean. Just try not to stress. I know easier said than done. I'm keepin ya in my thoughts n prayers."

Thank you! I'll keep ya posted. I see you recently got your BFP...congratulations!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheryl Michelle:</b>" Thank you! I'll keep ya posted. I see you recently got your BFP...congratulations!"</blockquote>



Thank you :-)

I know what you mean. Before we got preggo in two months. We ended up miscarrying in December. We've been trying since. I've had periods that became off when before i was like clockwork. I just had one that was 11 days late but I think that was because I had taken metformin for "PCOS" which I don't have or doc says I don't have. I'm just hoping I get my positive opk this month. If I don't doc wants to do a CD21 test to see if I ovulated or not and if not then it's clomid for me which I don't want it to go that far.

Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" I know what you mean. Before we got preggo in two months. We ended up miscarrying in December. We've ... [snip!] ... wants to do a CD21 test to see if I ovulated or not and if not then it's clomid for me which I don't want it to go that far."

fx for + OPK for you. I do hope you wont need the clomid. Hopefully, it'll go smoothly for you guys this time around! Last thing needed is more worry and stress.

Quoting Cheryl Michelle:" fx for + OPK for you. I do hope you wont need the clomid. Hopefully, it'll go smoothly for you guys this time around! Last thing needed is more worry and stress. "

That is true. I've stressed so much already. My hubby is talking more about babies now and getting me knocked up. Makes me feel like a friggin failure. I think that is stressing me out more than anything. I'm sure he sees my face when he brings it up. But I hope that you guys don't have to wait too long to get some results. I'm hoping for the positive opk too. I have 4 days to see if I get it.

Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" That is true. I've stressed so much already. My hubby is talking more about babies now and getting me ... [snip!] ... guys don't have to wait too long to get some results. I'm hoping for the positive opk too. I have 4 days to see if I get it."

Yeah the pressure definitely doesn't help much. Hoping you'll get good news the next couple days with your OPK. You should BD everyday this week and next lol just in case.

It's now 11 days and still no AF. Made an appointment with my PCP tomorrow to get a blood test done. I just want to know for sure. Not really feeling stressed anymore, just eh about everything. I just want answers.

I didn't get a positive until 12 dpo. One day before AF. and i showed hubby and he thought i was nuts. didn't see it at all. Got a much better line at 13dpo. BUT i had taken one at 10, and it was SO negative. I was so gutted. esp. when a girl who knew i was ttc came running up to me to tell me she was pg and had taken a test that morning. Talk about rubbing it in my face. However two days later, there it was. So relaly, a day or two doesn't matter!

Quoting MommyxOfxOne:" I didn't get a positive until 12 dpo. One day before AF. and i showed hubby and he thought i was nuts. ... [snip!] ... that morning. Talk about rubbing it in my face. However two days later, there it was. So relaly, a day or two doesn't matter!"

I wish mine showed that soon. I'm not 11dpo i'm actually 11 days late AF should have been here Nov 6. That's why my hopes are slowly dwindling. If i was it should have shown by now  

Sorry nothing has shown up for you yet! I came to check on you!

I'm two days past AF. Took another test and got a neg today. I've been cramping horribly for two days. I know though I'm not pregnant. With my last two I got early results and I just feel as I'm past AF I would have a positive result by now.

I'm just ready to start so I can move on to the next month.

And not feel guilty about drinking a beer, lol!

Quoting Cheryl Michelle:" Yeah the pressure definitely doesn't help much. Hoping you'll get good news the next couple days with ... [snip!] ... test done. I just want to know for sure. Not really feeling stressed anymore, just eh about everything. I just want answers."

It sucks just the waiting to see if something happens. We can't BD every day because we think my hubby might have a low sperm count. I did a test on him about a month ago and even after 2 days of not ejaculating the second line on his test was there but it was light. So we think he has just enough sperm every other night. At the end of the month or beginning of next month we'll go get his sperm and testosterone tested to see. It'll cost like 250 to 300 to do it. So we shall see. But I'll keep testing until the 27th when I go to the doc

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheryl Michelle:</b>" 9 days late...still nothing but BFN's. I swear it was so much easier when you aren't trying to get pregnant ... [snip!] ... really want this to be our month! I hope AF isn't playing some cruel joke! Sorry just needed to get things off my chest!!!!"</blockquote>

Hi Cheryl, this is probably not normal but I needed to vent too..I'm only 3 days late on my AF..but I'm still having all the symptoms of pregnancy..I got a BFN this morning and I'm so confused. I don't know if I should keep hope or just realize it wasn't my month..I'm devastated considering I was already planning on creating a list of things that need to be done If I did get a BFP. I guess I'm just looking for support from ladies that know what I'm going to through. I hope everything turned out amazing for you. <3 Kyla