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If you found a sex video...

posted 12th Nov

Of your DH/SO cheating, would you leave? I mean it's one thing to find out they are cheating, but to find out like that...
Someone very close to me recently found a video of her husband (together twelve years, married 9) screwing another chick. She tried to kick him out but he won't leave, so instead she is trying to 'get back' at him. It makes me sad though 'cause I'm afraid her getting back at him is going to cause her more harm then it will cause him.
Personally, that smurfer would be GONE. It would hurt me too much and if I were to see it with my own eyes, I would never be able to forgive that. And if he wouldn't leave, I would treat him like the dog he is. Make him walk around on all fours wearing nothing but a collar, sleep in the dog cage, eat with the dogs, smurf with the dogs.. you catch my drift.
WWYD? If you would stay and try to get past the cheating, would the video change anything?

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I'm due September 29th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ontario

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Klaus

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posted 12th Nov

GONE.

How is she trying to "get back" at him?

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I have 1 child & live in Mississippi

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SR ♥

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posted 12th Nov

His ass would be gone and I'd post his sex video all over pornhub and redtube. In a HEARTBEAT.

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I have 1 child & live in Arkansas

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Thisperyears

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posted 12th Nov

Smurf leaving, I'd kick his ass out. And if he refused to leave I'd call the cops. That's so smurffy.

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I have 1 child & live in Portland, Maine

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NICKEL☮POLIS

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posted 12th Nov

Quoting Chuck Bass:" GONE. How is she trying to "get back" at him?"

doing coke and hanging out with an 'old flame' (coke dealer that used to have the major hots for her when she was younger.) She is a recovering addict, coming off of pills on methadone but in her early twenties she was addicted to coke for a while.

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I'm due September 29th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ontario

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♥Love♥

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posted 12th Nov

Quoting Co-Creator of Goobernut:" Smurf leaving, I'd kick his ass out. And if he refused to leave I'd call the cops. That's so smurffy."

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I'm TTC since June '13, have 2 angel babies & live in California

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Thisperyears

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posted 12th Nov

Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" doing coke and hanging out with an 'old flame' (coke dealer that used to have the major hots for her ... [snip!] ... She is a recovering addict, coming off of pills on methadone but in her early twenties she was addicted to coke for a while."

That's really sad Are there any kids involved?

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I have 1 child & live in Portland, Maine

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I♥RYLEIGH

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posted 12th Nov

I'd never be able to get over seeing a video of my man smurfing another woman. ever.

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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Windsor, Ontario

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Hillbilly Princess

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posted 12th Nov

He would be beyond gone.

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I have 4 kids & live in Mississippi

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Teenage Girl

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posted 12th Nov

I'd stay but be upset.

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I live in Maine

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NICKEL☮POLIS

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posted 12th Nov

Quoting Co-Creator of Goobernut:" That's really sad Are there any kids involved?"

Yep. They have two together and she has three more from previous relationships (two older though and don't live with her).

When she found out she made her husband tell their 11 yr old son what he did.. He didn't tell him about the sex tape but he knows anyways 'cause his mom left her fb open on a message to someone (that's what the little boy told me)

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I'm due September 29th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ontario

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NICKEL☮POLIS

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posted 12th Nov

Quoting shelbylynn [20 WEEKS!]:" I'd never be able to get over seeing a video of my man smurfing another woman. ever."

Me neither. I would be physically ill if I ever saw something like that.

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I'm due September 29th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ontario

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posted 12th Nov

I would kill him. With the video. In my hands.
Not really but I would try. And then I would be gone because I wouldn't want to stay in the same place where that smurf once lived. I'd go stay with a friend.

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I have 10 kids & live in Georgia

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Jane.Doe.

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posted 12th Nov

Yehhh he'd be smurfing out. His smurf would be on the lawn, locks changes, divorce papers filed before his ass even got home that day. Getting back at him isen't going to do a damn thing except cause more trouble.

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I live in Fukushima, Japan

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Thisperyears

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posted 12th Nov

Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" Yep. They have two together and she has three more from previous relationships (two older though and ... [snip!] ... the sex tape but he knows anyways 'cause his mom left her fb open on a message to someone (that's what the little boy told me)"

They both sound really smurfing trashy and should probably have their kids taken.

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