abortion exactly 3 weeks ago

DONT JUDGE ME! but I had an abortion 3 weeks ago... ..i stopped bleeding like 2 weeks after now im spotting it start off light red then changed to dark brown...... is this normal? im so busy working i keep missing my dr appt's.... i made an appt for next week i really need to know some anserws....ive been having sex 10 days after the abortion... im confused as to what to think...

You need to let your body heal and STOP having sex. Yes, it's normal to spot after an abortion.

Have you had unprotected sex?

You're supposed to wait 6 weeks to have sex after an abortion.

Quoting Logan&Lilly's Mommy:" Have you had unprotected sex?"

unfortunately yes

Quoting It's Delivered:" You need to let your body heal and STOP having sex. Yes, it's normal to spot after an abortion."

This.

And I pray you were using protection. I can't imagine anything more moronic than having unprotected sex after an abortion.

Quoting Dontai's MUMMY!:" unfortunately yes"

wtf. seriously?

Quoting Dontai's MUMMY!:" unfortunately yes"

Wow. Smurfing stupid. You're going to end up pregnant again. Wise up, if you don't want another child, quit having unprotected sex! Let your body heal and get on some birth control.

Quoting Mrs.Mud:" Wow...

Watch what you say, you are in a protected forum.

Im sure its normal but you really should go to the doctors visits and follow all the doctors recommendations (esp about waiting to have sex) to give your body time to heal. Good luck, I hope it all turns out ok with the spotting but I am sure it will

Quoting ☮Scarlet Begonia:" wtf. seriously?"

its really stupid... they gave me bc pills but forget to take them daily... so hoping everything is oko i would get an IUD like mirena

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Quoting Dontai's MUMMY!:" unfortunately yes"

Oh wow. Uhm.... I don't know then. I guess wait a little while and take a test?

Quoting Dontai's MUMMY!:" its really stupid... they gave me bc pills but forget to take them daily... so hoping everything is oko i would get an IUD like mirena"

Your cervix will be open after an abortion. You need to stop having sex and heal. 6 weeks.

I believe you are very fertile, so use condoms.........

This is the exact reason why people look down on people who have had abortions, because people like this have them and continue to have unprotected sex and end up pregnant again. Sorry to be blunt but you should obviously know better.