re: I'm going to vent. You can read about it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" He ended up storming out of my house. I couldn't help myself, I just exploded and asked him "Well, ... [snip!] ... right Erica. I think I'm just lonely and wanting to find someone that will be good for me and Gabriel. I shouldn't settle."</blockquote>


Edited this post solely due to back story.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amberchik78:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" He ended up storming out of my house. ... [snip!] ... that will be good for me and Gabriel. I shouldn't settle."</blockquote> Edited this post solely due to back story."</blockquote>




Haha okay

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" Sorry, I had no idea that you weren't actually asking for input or advice, you just wanted everyone to talk about what an smurf this guy is. "</blockquote>




Dude, there is absolutely nothing wrong with bringing a guy around as long as it stays appropriate & the child believes they are just friends. & she's been casually dating him a month, not a few days. The smurf?

<blockquote><b>Quoting mama erica.:</b>" Oh dear god, seriously.. If a good guy saw she was frustrated and wanted to help calm the situation ... [snip!] ... to help calm the situation down, there are plenty of things he could've done without taking over, or acting like the parent. "</blockquote>




Exactly  

When I was single, I'd have a guy friend over, no dating involved, & he'd help out with groceries, dinner, etc. It's called being a decent human being. I would definitely expect that having been dating someone a month  

wtf, unless she was straddling his cock or asking her son to call him Daddy this has nothing to do with being "too soon". Stupid bitches..

Kelsey, there's nothing wrong with wanting to chill with someone after a long day, but they have to actually be worth the time. Like if he's over for 2 hours and just annoys you the whole time, forget it. You're better off alone than annoyed and defending your parenting.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" When I was single, I'd have a guy friend over, no dating involved, & he'd help out with groceries, dinner, ... [snip!] ... dinner, etc. It's called being a decent human being. I would definitely expect that having been dating someone a month  "

 

Quoting **milfshake**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Amberchik78:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" ... [snip!] ... I shouldn't settle."</blockquote> Edited this post solely due to back story."</blockquote> Haha okay"

Guy's dont realize how stressful it can be apparently!

Quoting **milfshake**:" I just get sick of the condescending comments you tend to litter around this website. If you aren't ... [snip!] ... I don't want any of your advice...you're always just a snobby smurf. You can just leave...none of your advice is desired."

LOL
Call it like you see it.

He had no reason to interfere in your parenting and that would annoy me too. Good luck to you girl. You will find "him" one day.