re: I'm going to vent. You can read about it.

Quoting **milfshake**:" Um no bitch...you have been NO WHERE CLOSE to where I've been. But thanks, come again. Take your hormonal, asinine comments elsewhere."

How do you know what she has been through and vice versa?

<blockquote><b>Quoting mama erica.:</b>" Why are you fighting this so hard? This obviously isn't the easiest of topics for her and you're just being a straight smurf."</blockquote>




I stated my opinion as did everyone else. Sorry I'm not changing it to conform to her sensitivity on the matter.

If you yell a lot, you yell a lot. No one has to "walk in your shoes" to see that you yell a lot.

If he said you had no reason to, then you would have a valid argument. But it seems like he was just stating fact.

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" How do you know what she has been through and vice versa? "

I'm pretty sure not very many people can relate to my situation, and if you'd like to read up on it (not saying you'd even care to)...you can look at my previous threads.

It will never fully summarize the situation, a lot of it I left in PT threads because of whats going on right now.

People come in here and judge me and throw out bullsmurf advice...I get annoyed but then I remember that they have no idea what I could be experiencing right now.

This gem though...shes just having a smurffy life/day and is on BG to let everyone know about it.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mama erica.:</b>" Why are you fighting this so hard? This ... [snip!] ... I stated my opinion as did everyone else. Sorry I'm not changing it to conform to her sensitivity on the matter."

Don't apologize, we don't care  

Quoting **milfshake**:" I'm pretty sure not very many people can relate to my situation, and if you'd like to read up on it ... [snip!] ... be experiencing right now. This gem though...shes just having a smurffy life/day and is on BG to let everyone know about it."

I'm sorry about your loss.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" I'm pretty sure not very many people can relate to my situation, and if you'd like to read up on it ... [snip!] ... be experiencing right now. This gem though...shes just having a smurffy life/day and is on BG to let everyone know about it."</blockquote>




Haha nope   I stumbled across the topic and stated my opinion. Pretty sure that's why this forum is here.

Quoting **milfshake**:" Hey guys thanks...I realized my mistake and I'm going to fix it. I lost my son's dad a few months ago, ... [snip!] ... system that allows me to. I'm just glad I have you people to put it so delicately that maybe I didn't make the best decision."

Have you considered counseling? Feeling lonely after losing someone you love is understandable. But, one of the worst things you can do is rush into a relationship just because you are lonely or you are trying to replace your child's father.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" I'm pretty sure not very many people can relate to my situation, and if you'd like to read up on it ... [snip!] ... be experiencing right now. This gem though...shes just having a smurffy life/day and is on BG to let everyone know about it."</blockquote>




I love you girl everything will start looking up soon

would definitly leave him he has no right to tell you how to raise your son or what to do with him. I get fustrated like that with my almost 2 yr old as well and wish i would have put him in his crib instead of yelling at him like i did and i end up apologizing to him later on but us single moms have it hard and only other single moms know what we go through day by day

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" Have you considered counseling? Feeling lonely after losing someone you love is understandable. But, ... [snip!] ... things you can do is rush into a relationship just because you are lonely or you are trying to replace your child's father."</blockquote>




I have, but I really think I need to just slow down a little. I made a mistake, had a lapse in judgement and I know better. Erica is right, I'm just going to learn from this situation and move on. I'm sorry for what I said to you earlier. I'd be a liar if I said I wasn't being sensitive. I knew I made a mistake and felt like salt was being poured in the wound.

I would never try to replace my sons dad. We talk about him every day.

<blockquote><b>Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" I'm pretty sure not very many people can ... [snip!] ... and is on BG to let everyone know about it."</blockquote> I love you girl everything will start looking up soon"</blockquote>



Thanks girl   I hope so. I'm just ready for the holidays to be over already.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" Have you considered counseling? Feeling ... [snip!] ... and felt like salt was being poured in the wound. I would never try to replace my sons dad. We talk about him every day."</blockquote>




<3 Very big (and strong, because you are!) of you.

Quoting **milfshake**:" Its been a long day, you and your child spend the day playing at a friend's house. When you get home, ... [snip!] ... at least once a week that pisses me off or hurts my feelings. That shouldn't be happening, I should still be on cloud 9."

You should definitely still be on cloud 9 and I'm sorry that he was that way. Never settle for less than you deserve. and you deserve a whole lot. <3<3

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" 1. Why are you introducing your son to a guy after only dating him a month? 2. You've only been dating ... [snip!] ... stepping in and "dealing" with a child he has just met. 3. Many men can't help but only be "every other weekend warriors"...."</blockquote>




*EXACTLY*