Quoting laxmommy:" Sometimes the most well meaning of intentions hurt the most. I'm sorry that people have unintentionally hurt you. Sending prayers and a warm hug your way!"This is so true!!! My bff mom asked me if I worried that my dh rode a motorcycle. I said yes. She said oh God wouldn't do that to you twice (he was driving back to Spokane from Seattle about a 4.5 hr ride) . WTF I freaked afterwards. I still have a hard time when he rides it.