Quoting green mama☮:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" It won't stop until you make it. It's ... [snip!] ... caught. I realty could care less if he checks my phone but he's so sneaky about it like he's really going to find something..."
Really sounds like a guilty conscience to me....What I did was get a job, even though he gave me hell for it and i moved out even though I was still broke a month or so later. I just had to get away. Yes it was hard, and for a time I did need govt assistance, but it was definitely what was best for me and my child at the time