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ugh, I really hate this

posted 12th Nov
For the past 6 weeks SO has been gone out of town, he comes home for the weekend, I work ALL weekend and then he leaves again. This past week he ddint get home till saturday night, then i opened at starbucks all morning and early afternoon sunday and he is already gone : (

but the good news is, is im watching a baby boy to keep me busy..well im already busy, but to help me keep my mind off of him. It just stinks, this is the first time in our relationship we hve been apart like this, so its just different. esepcially since his job isnt supposed to be a "going out of town" job, but I guess all the jobs that need to be done arent in ABQ, so what can ya do ya know. Im not pissed or anything, I just miss my man. I hate that he has to be gone, and still will be for probably a few more weeks.

end vent.
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 12th Nov
Sucky. I'm sorry.  
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I'm due July 31st, have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Indiana
posted 12th Nov
Quoting Squeaky McGee:" Sucky. I'm sorry.  "

thanks! the only nice thing is because its a government job its scale pay so he makes a few more dollars AND overtime, so his checks have been FAT. thats the oly thing that makes it worth it. lol
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 12th Nov
Curious, since you said he is making such a good pay...couldn't you quit a crappy little starbucks job? Not trying to be rude, just curious.  
I couldn't do that, no way.
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I'm due with 6 December 20th, have 15 kids & live in Texas
posted 12th Nov
Quoting Emma Stone-♥-:" Curious, since you said he is making such a good pay...couldn't you quit a crappy little starbucks job? Not trying to be rude, just curious.   I couldn't do that, no way."

Extra income is always a plus, especially with 3 children. I haven't returned to work yet and don't need to financially but I wish I had a job, even if it was something on the weekends just to get out of the house and away from my husband and son for a break. Also, you can make good money at Starbucks in tips, so I wouldn't call that a "crappy little job".
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in South Carolina
posted 12th Nov
Quoting Emma Stone-♥-:" Curious, since you said he is making such a good pay...couldn't you quit a crappy little starbucks job? Not trying to be rude, just curious.   I couldn't do that, no way."


i could. but i really dont too because this only temporary..once this job gets finished they will be back here in ABQ making the usual amount of mney.

ive been thinking about just doing at home nannying... i just need to get a few kids and then see if i need a lisence and all that, I also want to take CPR classes just so im certified again. but if i quit, id eventually need another job. :/ his money is decent, not great unfortunately... onec he finishs the apprenticeship though and union classes and all that life will be great and i CAN quit working and go to school full time finally!
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 12th Nov
If I stayed at home, I would miss my husband so terribly. I work full time and he works more than full time (6 1/2 days a week 12 to 18 hours a day. He runs a business). I really think it would be a problem if I didn't exhaust myself with working full time and taking care of the house around that.

Hopefully it gets easier for you soon!
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I have 2 kids & live in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
posted 12th Nov
Quoting Deanna Arntzen:" Extra income is always a plus, especially with 3 children. I haven't returned to work yet and don't ... [snip!] ... husband and son for a break. Also, you can make good money at Starbucks in tips, so I wouldn't call that a "crappy little job"."


ive worked for starbucks since 2006.I really love working for that company and if you work enough you can make 80 bucks or more in tips a week. on top of your check. I only make from 600-700 a month ( when SO is in town and i can work at night too) but now since i only work the weekends my checks are not even 200 bucks every 2 weeks. thats gas pretty much. maybe a meal thrown in there and some diapers. but it isnt much! i just like being able to bring in extra money ya know
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 12th Nov
It sucks, man. DH has been at his job for a year and a half now. Crazy to think that over all of that time, he's spent so little of it actually home.

I feel yah mama.  
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 12th Nov
I take it he is in construction? My SO has been in construction for about 8yrs now, the longest stretch we went with him out of town was a whole year. He would come back every weekend, but still I feel your paint. Im sorry! Make sure you save from his scale pay, it blows so bad when theres no more scale! lol It comes to a hault and its like bam...where did all the money go?? Where does he work, if you dont mine me asking.
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I'm due August 6th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Albuquerque, New Mexico
posted 12th Nov
Quoting Vindictive:" It sucks, man. DH has been at his job for a year and a half now. Crazy to think that over all of that time, he's spent so little of it actually home. I feel yah mama.  "

eventually one day, i think we will move out of ABQ, but by that time he will have his journeysmen and can easily find jobs. so hopefully everything just works out!
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 12th Nov
Quoting TheyCallMeMOMMY♥:" I take it he is in construction? My SO has been in construction for about 8yrs now, the longest stretch ... [snip!] ... scale! lol It comes to a hault and its like bam...where did all the money go?? Where does he work, if you dont mine me asking."

very similar, its Glazing, so he does the window part, like the giant windows in frames in big buildings, so he is working along other workers like contsrtuction and plumbers and all that stuff.
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 12th Nov
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" very similar, its Glazing, so he does the window part, like the giant windows in frames in big buildings, so he is working along other workers like contsrtuction and plumbers and all that stuff."

I know exactly what he does. I work in construction, and we only do commercial jobs too.
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I'm due August 6th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Albuquerque, New Mexico
posted 12th Nov
Quoting TheyCallMeMOMMY♥:" I know exactly what he does. I work in construction, and we only do commercial jobs too."
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 12th Nov

Actually I think I have, sounds familiar. If he is working on a school, base or even a state/fed/gov funded job he should be making good money. We just bid a job in LC today. Thats the bad thing about NM, we have very little work in Alb, but have ton everywhere else. Especially our bases, they have a ton of money they are using for new/remolded construction.
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I'm due August 6th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Albuquerque, New Mexico
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