So broken

I'm really trying to except the fact it's over between me n SO. He meet someone at work a customer. They've been talking for about 2 weeks. He's meet her outside work once and they've kissed. He says he has the same feelings for her as he does me but we fight too much. I suggested counseling along time ago but nothing become of it. All this after almost 8 years.

That's really awful I'm sorry you are going through that. Keep in mind you are a strong beautiful women who deserves someone to love you whole heartedly so tell him grow screw himself when he realizes what he gave up and comes crawling back you will find someone to love you the way you should be ndp put you on a pedistool

Wow. If he is willing to leave an 8 year relationship for someone he met 2 weeks ago... he is a loser. Im sorry you're going through this  

he sounds like a douche. sorry mama.

This is rubbish but unfortunately there's nothing anyone can say that will make you feel better only time is a healer, just try and concentrate on them beautiful kiddies.

Ouch.   I'm so sorry. Are y'all still living together?

Quoting Proud momma 87:" I'm really trying to except the fact it's over between me n SO. He meet someone at work a customer. They've ... [snip!] ... does me but we fight too much. I suggested counseling along time ago but nothing become of it. All this after almost 8 years."

I'm so sorry hun  
He'll be kicking himself in the ass soon enough!
I hope in time you can heal and start to move on with your life!
HUGS

Quoting Proud momma 87:" I'm really trying to except the fact it's over between me n SO. He meet someone at work a customer. They've ... [snip!] ... does me but we fight too much. I suggested counseling along time ago but nothing become of it. All this after almost 8 years."

And he just started all this with a customer while you guys are still together? If he did then you deserve better anyways. The right choices aren't always the easiest ones.

I went through the same thing with my exhusband. He started talking to a girl he casually dated in high school, and two week after they reconnected I caught him via facebook chat where they were talking about how they couldn't live without each other, how in love they were, all the while laughing at me saying I would have to find out sooner or later.
This was while we had a 15 month old daughter and my dad had just died the month before from terrible illness.

I packed my stuff up (what I could fit in my Jeep) with my daughter that night while he was at work, and drove 1700 miles to my home state. I lived in my mom's basement, got a super career started, and ended up meeting the man of my dreams.
Our 2nd wedding anniversary is actually today  

This will probably be the toughest thing you will ever go through, but when you come out on the other side, you will be happier than you could have ever thought you'd be, stronger than you could ever know, and you will be grateful you found out now, and not in another 8 years.

*Hugs*

Wow, I'm so sorry, mama. You fight because you're comfortable with one another. He doesn't even know this chick. If he thinks it will be sunshine and rainbows forever, he's seriously misled. I'm sorry he's doing this to you. It isn't fair.

Sorry not been on for a couple days. We've been trying to talking things over but I just don't know. I don't think it's worth throwing 8 years away but at the same time will it ever change. She swears he knows he messed up, it was all a mistake, he's done talking to her. I really want it to work just all these mixed emotions.