Quoting the grace life:" Two fully consenting adults? I fail to see the abuse. "same
Quoting Alecia Downey:" It's DEFINITELY not abuse. Especially because most interactions like that, require a contract. Which ... [snip!] ... the exact acts and types of pain that is going to happen. These people willingly do it. =) Didn't they read 50 Shades *snicker*"
Quoting kaaw:" clearly, if there is consent, it is not abuse. or, put it the other way... if there is not consent, it isn't BDSM."
Quoting Michael Westen:" No 50 shades, that guy is abusive. That's not even remotely what it's about!"