Quoting Michael Westen:" I'll have to watch it!! Lol Our relationship wasn't the whole dominant/submissive thing like most ... [snip!] ... anyones submissive and I don't think I could be anyones dominant on a permanent basis. maybe during sex but that would be it."
Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" Im in a BDSM relationship and its not abuse in the slightest ... There is a level of intimacy and trust in a true BDSM relationship that can't be acheived in any other way"
Quoting Derpy the Duck:" But in a true BDSM relationship the sub or bottom holds all the power. Not the Dom/Domme or Top. That's the difference. "
Quoting Derpy the Duck:" OP, have you ever heard of the site Fetlife? Awesome awesome people on that site who live all different ... [snip!] ... There's an amazing amount to learn there too. I'll warn you though, lots of nudity. Might help with your paper though. "
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" Most people on fetlife have disclaimers that you MAY NOT use things on their profile for any sort of ... [snip!] ... power hungry. My husband took it too far so we had to back out completely. I would be happy to talk to you about it in a PM."I was more meaning to point her towards the various groups and public writing people do. There's also a lot of great people she can talk to too, I've been a member of the site for a couple years now.
Quoting Michael Westen:" It's not abuse. Just because 50 shades of grey makes it seem that way. It's a lifestyle which both parties choose."
Quoting the grace life:" I become more and more glad with each passing day that I never picked that book up! "
Quoting Michael Westen:" I read like 2 chapters of the first one and gave up."