Quoting Dallas & JaKobee's Mommy:" Wow, nice to know its okay to ask a question and NOT be judged here."
*Sigh* Okay, pick the panties out of your ass for a minute?
I didn't say you were stupid, what you are saying is completely stupid. You asked for advice, people have given you advice and their opinions, but you go ahead and just pretty much tell everyone that they are wrong. . . So then what was the point of you posting?
Also, when I replied back, 'seriously' to you asking me if I was 'seriosuly' calling you stupid.... I was correcting a spelling error. Ironic.
And no one is judging. If you don't like the way that your children are being taken care of then quit your job, because honestly no one does it better than Mom. No one will ever do it 100% your way, paid or not. And I really doubt anyone will be comfortable spanking your child even if they spank their own.
I get my panties twisted up my ass too about how my children are taken care of by other people so my SO and I do opposite shifts. It's better than fighting with family and burning bridges because they don't feel like following a routine such as nap time.