re: my story.. long *

Quoting * CAT *:“ i was so hoping to never need to post in a forum like this, but here i am. My name is Cat, i'm 21 from ... [snip!] ... april 11th & april 17th, just days after our first peek at you. mommy and daddy love you & will always miss you.”

i'm really sorry to hear that.. i don't know what else to say - i've gone through this too and i didn't even know what to say about it when i went through it myself. it really is the worst pain and nobody deserves to go through that. just kno that everything happens for a reason & if you need anyone to talk to, i'm here.. i'm good at it. lol

Quoting slagathor:“ im very sorry for your loss   but your doc was correct in calling it a D&C. its dilation andcurettage. ... [snip!] ... keep crying as long as you need to. dont let anyone tell you how long is "okay" to grieve. its all what YOU feel is right.”

no i know that's what a d&c is but that's not what they're doing. the lady who is doing it told me that's when the scrape it out and i knew that, they're doing a d&e which is dialation and evacuation she said it's just like a vaccuum it just suctions everything out there's no scraping. she's the one who does it so i'm sure she knows what she's talking about. but thank you. i know it's basically the same but she made it a point to say that it's not a d&c that's why i said it.

Quoting slagathor:“ im very sorry for your loss   but your doc was correct in calling it a D&C. its dilation andcurettage. ... [snip!] ... keep crying as long as you need to. dont let anyone tell you how long is "okay" to grieve. its all what YOU feel is right.”

sorry if that sounded bitchy, that's not how i meant it at all. just don't want you to think i'm being a bitch when you're just trying to help. i really don't mean it in a bitchy way just she told me it's different that's why i pointed it out. thank you so much though. i know people tend to think you should just bounce back from things and sometimes you're just not ready to. thank you. & sorry again   i hate that i may have sounded rude like that

thank you all so much for all the support. it really does mean soo much.you girls are amazing. it literally brings tears to my eyes that so many people care so much.

thank you tonsss.

im sooo sorry! You've got me tearing. I wish the best for you and your family.. Its a tough one to go thru, my sister had a miscarriage at 1 1/2 months and a couple months later was pregnant with my gorgeous nephew Issah. Dont lose hope- were here for u! *ki$$e$*

Quoting MaMa JaCk:“ im sooo sorry! You've got me tearing. I wish the best for you and your family.. Its a tough one to go ... [snip!] ... at 1 1/2 months and a couple months later was pregnant with my gorgeous nephew Issah. Dont lose hope- were here for u! *ki$$e$*”

thank you love. good luck to you with your son! i'll still be on here so keep me posted on everything.
thanks again for everything hun <3.

I'm so sorry sweetheart. I wish you and your bf the best of luck. Everything happens for a reason, good or bad as it may be. You're little angel is in the best place to be! You and your bf will be great parents when the time comes and at least you know you'll be ready! good luck to you both and I'll be praying for you.

I feel horrible for you.I have been through a similar situation about 6 weeks before I got pregnant with Ben. It sucks ass, I'm here to talk if you need.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know there are no words to make you feel better right now, we are all here for you thinking about you and praying for you. *Hugs*

Awe   Reading that seriously brought tears to my eyes   Im really sorry that you had a m/c!!! I have no idea what to say really because i've never been in your position. I will definitely keep your family in my thoughts & prayers!! If you ever need someone to talk to you can PM me!

wow... i am literally on the verge of tears. I am so sorry i wish there is something I could do.. i'm here if you need to talk or want support we all are. My thoughts are with you and I wish you well.

im so sorry for you loss my sister has went threw the same thing 2 times but the first time she lost it 7 months.and the 2nd around 5 weeks i could feel her pain just take it one day at a time and just remember you always have a little angle watching over you!if you need to talk im here!

im so Sorry about your loss && even tho i havent had that happen 2 me i know that you are going thru a lot right now. if you do need some1 2 talk 2 you can message me. all i can say is it'll take a while 2 get over it && even worse b/c ur boyfriend isn't there with you but in the end you seem like a strong person & will get thru it the best you can..

yeah it's definately harder that he's not here with me. i have my mom and my sister and stuff but there's no one i'd want here with me more than him. it really hurts that i can't be with him. and i just came back from there and tickets are really expensive so idk when i'll get to go back to him again.

thank you guys

Aww! That made me sad   I know how you feel though. Im 22 I luckly had my first baby, she is 3 now, but lost 3 more after her. They all were a heartache but like they say, something was not right with the baby and your body terminated it. Look at it as a sign from God or whereever, that it just wasnt right and it wasnt the perfect baby for you. I am now pregnant again, 13 weeks saturday and made it farther than my last 3 miscarriages. All you can do is keep yourself healthy before you get pregnant and keep your hopes up. Just remember the right time will come...

If you need someone to talk to, im always here