re: done

Quoting Spyro:" ive been there and done it. found stuff i didnt want to. i cant even describe the feeling. it was like ... [snip!] ... down. i reallllyyy hope you dont find anything. i really hope he really is just tired. i am praying for the best for you."

  

the fact that she said he's going to his friends house every other day for a couple hours makes me nervous.

Don't confront him.
Find proof first and then confront him.
I you've been cheated on before your radar could be off and then he'll know you didn't trust him.

Trust is not something easily restored, and it could be that it would be him hang to rebuild trust with you..

I fully believe in trusting your gut as well, 9/10 times if you have a bad feeling, it's there for a reason.

I learned this the hard way and I'll never, ever doubt my gut feeling again.

Honestly every once in awhile I get this feeling about my husband. BUT I also know that he would never. And I mean NEVER cheat. This last time I just told him that I had a bad feeling and it sucked because I knew it wasn't true but still needed to get it off my chest. I felt way better after talking to him.
You're gut isn't always right and trust in the person you married not a bunch of women who have had bad experiences.

Every time I've had a gut feeling and checked, I found something.
He wasn't necessarily cheating but it was stuff I didn't want to know.
Good luck