Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" I know that technically abortion is always an option. I would abort in a heartbeat and probably not think ... [snip!] ... of rape" rather than give it up for adoption Which kind of comfirms (in my head) that adoption is harder than abortion"
Yes I think it would be. I mean no matter how that child was made you still have 9 months give or take to grow that child and feel it kick and grow.
That's 9 months to process what happened to you and to think about this child. To get connected to it, love it, want it.
Some people may not be able to get over the fact that they were raped and have to give up the baby. And that is completely understandable and I would hope no one would ever judge them for that.
But others like me will inevitably fall in love with the child or just not be able to even think about someone else raising their child.
I think that adoption would be harder than keeping or aborting any day. I think it would kill me