re: Thinking about another man

Quoting Nancy Botwin:" Fantasy is a good work for it. Thank you  "

I'm not going to lie, because we're being honest here... I've had a few fantasies that I thoroughly enjoyed.......

Quoting Colt's mommy:" I'm not going to lie, because we're being honest here... I've had a few fantasies that I thoroughly enjoyed....... "

I have some too. ;) lol

Others were people that are close to SO. So, those are the ones that make me feel like smurf.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" I have some too. ;) lol Others were people that are close to SO. So, those are the ones that make me feel like smurf."</blockquote>




See I only ever have had a crush on dh's close friends. They are all so much alike because they grew up together, i just can't help it. Theyre all such sweet guys. We tend to develop crushes on people who remind us of one another.

Try thinking of a actor haha replace the drunk for a actor... Lol. It's normal.tho guys do the same thing im sure  

Personally I think he's being really disrespectful, saying things like that to you when he knows you have a SO. I would politely ask him to stop...I know the attention is nice but it's definitely not helping the situation.

That said, there's nothing wrong with a little fantasizing or a harmless crush...you're only human. As long as you love your SO and you know you would never cheat on him, that's what matters.

Also, random question but I see this a lot and it made me wonder...why do people ask sometimes not to quote them?