re: About to give up

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" Unfortunately with fertility it can be fine one day and horrible te next. I have a friend who is only ... [snip!] ... it. Wait til mate feb? No doctor will run tests before then. We're you actively trying not to conceive up until January?"

We were not trying not to conceive before Jan but we weren't TTC either.

Quoting KelseyLynn4446:" Fingers crossed for you!!!! I wouldn't give up just don't put as much stress into it hun.. I hope you get the results you want!  "

Thanks  

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" ok. I wasn't talking about your time together. I was talking about actively trying to concieve "

Oh sorry

Quoting Khole Maeve TTC#2:" We have been together longer then 1-2 years. We have a son together"

I got pregnant at 16 i'd say within 2 weeks of when my ex and i started having sex. But then at 20 when my DH and I started trying to have a baby of our own I couldn't get pregnant. We ended up both getting tested and doing fertility counseling, and the problem was me. I figured all along that it was. I just knew after I had my first son that my body was so screwed up. They put me on chlomid to help me ovulate and we got pregnant not long after. With chlomid you just have to take one pill a day, it gave me a miserable headache, but in the end it was worth it.

Quoting *mommy to 3*:" I got pregnant at 16 i'd say within 2 weeks of when my ex and i started having sex. But then at 20 when ... [snip!] ... long after. With chlomid you just have to take one pill a day, it gave me a miserable headache, but in the end it was worth it."

Doesn't seem that bad(the pill) minus the headache

Quoting Khole Maeve TTC#2:" Doesn't seem that bad(the pill) minus the headache"

It wasnt that bad. You take it once a day for 5 days a month until you get pregnant. The headache was miserable but I still went to work at an elementary school with kids everyday and survived. Your insurance may not cover the chlomid. Mine didnt. But it was only $20 per month for the pills. I had to chart my BBT for 3 months and also everytime we had sex so that the doctor could see that I wasnt ovulating,

Quoting *mommy to 3*:" It wasnt that bad. You take it once a day for 5 days a month until you get pregnant. The headache was ... [snip!] ... pills. I had to chart my BBT for 3 months and also everytime we had sex so that the doctor could see that I wasnt ovulating,"

Okay thanks.
Still hoping for 2 pink lines in 3 days tho. lol  

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Khole Maeve TTC#2:</b>" I'm not that young."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... a sperm analysis. Go from there. They will probably dismiss you evaluate your so young, but infertility doesn't discriminate."

she is 20..

if she is on her own and supportin gher family who gives a flying smurf how old she is? what else should she be doing? partying and getting wasted underage like everyone else her age?

Not everyone my age goes out and gets smurf faced though either.

Quoting Khole Maeve TTC#2:" Not everyone my age goes out and gets smurf faced though either. "

not everyone your age is TTC either. lol

im just saying, what exactly should you be doing since your 20? there isnt anything you should or shouldnt be doing. i know not every 20 year old drinks.

I know not every 20 year old is TTC.
Not every 20 year old has a husband, a son, a job, a house, pays their own bills. Not every 20 year old is the same and my husband & I are ready for baby #2  
I'm an adult in the end I will do what I know is best for my family  

Quoting Khole Maeve TTC#2:" I know not every 20 year old is TTC. Not every 20 year old has a husband, a son, a job, a house, pays ... [snip!] ... the same and my husband & I are ready for baby #2   I'm an adult in the end I will do what I know is best for my family  "

exactly what i was tryign to get at.. no one needs to tell a 20 yr old she shouldnt TTC because her AGE, they dont know YOU or your situation..

i was trying to tell people to STFU and let you do your thing.. now good luck!

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" exactly what i was tryign to get at.. no one needs to tell a 20 yr old she shouldnt TTC because her ... [snip!] ... AGE, they dont know YOU or your situation.. i was trying to tell people to STFU and let you do your thing.. now good luck!"

Thank you  

I never said she shouldn't ttc..
Your comments should be direct at someone else.


I come from Australia, our culture is very different. We value different things.
In my generation of cousins and siblings. One of them had a has a family. None of us 20 kids are married or having babies in our 20s.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monkey Nuts:</b>" I never said she shouldn't ttc.. Your comments should be direct at someone else. I come from Australia, ... [snip!] ... generation of cousins and siblings. One of them had a has a family. None of us 20 kids are married or having babies in our 20s."</blockquote>




You deff siad she should wait 12 months and it was a "sign"

Its not her agell lots of women TTC with no luck. Is that a sign for them too?