Quoting Monkey Nuts:" That smurf is WHACK. Here in Australia all the people in the army, airforce, police etc.. They are all kinky as hell and no one gives a smurf!"
Part of me wants to say everyone should be sexually liberated no matter what their profession but the other part of me says that people in the military--specifically people of higher ranks who are in charge of others--shouldn't be having extramarital affairs because it might indicate an inability to be dependable.
It also looks terrible. I think it's silly that we can't have sex with whoever we want whenever we want but it is what it is and as long as it's this way it's just plain dumb to carry on any kind of affair if you're in the military. If you aren't monogamous then you probably shouldn't be married, especially if you're in a career field that highly values a strong, singular family unit.