birth control

My c section is scheduled for Dec 6the I am done having kids. And wanted to get my tubes "tied" but I don't want to continue to have a period and not be able to have kids. That is why I don't think I will do it. Spending the next 20+ years bleeding and being reminded I can't have kids sounds depressing. After the birth of my son I tried the our and it rejected then I tried the shot and got pregnant while on it. So this time I want to do it different. I can't use the patch or the ring they both make me sick. I hate condoms and I don't think being married that we should have to use them. It makes sex less pleasurable. Ideas? Also the arm implant freaks me out.

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Depending on your age, most doctors won't actually do permanent forms of birth control.

What have your experiences been like with regular bc pills?

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" Depending on your age, most doctors won't actually do permanent forms of birth control."</blockquote>




My doctor will. I already signed for it. But she said until she does it I can change my mind. I'm almost 23 with 2 kids. And one was conceived on birth control.

Then there aren't very many other options. lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting S&T+1:</b>" What have your experiences been like with regular bc pills?"</blockquote>




Im honestly worried that I would get pregnant on it. But I have to take the low estrogen. that is the only thing I feel I can do.

we use natural family planning for the same reasons (I can't do almost every form of bc except for condoms, which I don't feel is a constantly viable option in marriage because we both dislike it so much), so that's temps, cervical length, texture, opening, cervical mucous, opks. And it's been working very well for us. Once you know what you're doing it can be quite effective.

Why not get a partial hystorectamy? Then you won't bleed or get pregnant ever.

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting S&T+1:</b>" What have your experiences been like with regular ... [snip!] ... honestly worried that I would get pregnant on it. But I have to take the low estrogen. that is the only thing I feel I can do."

I was gonna suggest trying the low estrogen pills if you had bad experiences in the past. lol That's the only birth control that I can even stand to be on. But I suck at remembering to take a pill everyday and I got pregnant anyway.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squid Kid:</b>" Why not get a partial hystorectamy? Then you won't bleed or get pregnant ever."</blockquote>




Because they don't do that. During a c-section the likelihood I would bleed out is too high. The doctors just won't do it. And they don't do them just because. I would have to need one. I asked. I wanted to do it. But I'd rather live and im glad my doctor feels the same.

<blockquote><b>Quoting A, E & W's mommy:</b>" we use natural family planning for the same reasons (I can't do almost every form of bc except for condoms, ... [snip!] ... cervical mucous, opks. And it's been working very well for us. Once you know what you're doing it can be quite effective."</blockquote>




So you have to plan sex basically?

<blockquote><b>Quoting A, E & W's mommy:</b>" we use natural family planning for the same reasons (I can't do almost every form of bc except for condoms, ... [snip!] ... cervical mucous, opks. And it's been working very well for us. Once you know what you're doing it can be quite effective."</blockquote>




If I was on a pill making my period regular, could I go off that? Or does it take all the things you listed?

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A, E & W's mommy:</b>" we use natural family planning for the ... [snip!] ... for us. Once you know what you're doing it can be quite effective."</blockquote> So you have to plan sex basically?"

No, it's just that depending on when in your cycle you're at when you want to have sex dictates how you go about it. For example we know that I tend to ovulate between cycle day 19 and 21 and my cycle is a pretty regular 32-33 days. My luteal phase is 13 days. So because all of those things are consistent I know that starting 6 days before my typical ovulation day we start using pull out method, there aren't likely going to be any sperm that make it to ovulation at that stage but to just reduce the risk we limit the number of little guys that'll even get in there. Then starting 3 days before typical ovulation we start using condoms until 36 hours after confirmed ovulation. After ovulation is confirmed I continue charting to make sure there are no drops in temp (indicating a possible second ovulation coming) and just continue to have sex as normal without any contraceptive until I get my period.

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A, E & W's mommy:</b>" we use natural family planning for the ... [snip!] ... If I was on a pill making my period regular, could I go off that? Or does it take all the things you listed?"

Are you periods regular if you aren't on the pill? I would still do all those things just to be well in tune with your body.

<blockquote><b>Quoting A, E & W's mommy:</b>" Are you periods regular if you aren't on the pill? I would still do all those things just to be well in tune with your body."</blockquote>

By the time I have her it will have been almost 2 years since I had a period. But before that I was fairly regular. my shot didn't wear off completely for a year. We were trying to have a baby when I got pregnant the first time and that was how long I was off depo before conceiving.