re: relationship advice for friend?

Poor girl.. I know exactly what this feeling is like.  

I just want to thank you ladies so much!

Seriously, she inboxed me on facebook.. and we got to talking and she said that that was exactly what she needed to hear.. and that she WONT tolerate a man that uses her weight against her.

<3 she updated her facebook, and will start packing his stuff and even said she will be changing her number to keep her from being tempted to going back to him.

I really appreciate you guys giving me JUST the right words.

She put that on her facebook  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:</b>" I just want to thank you ladies so much! Seriously, she inboxed me on facebook.. and we got to talking ... [snip!] ... her number to keep her from being tempted to going back to him. I really appreciate you guys giving me JUST the right words."</blockquote>

Great for her!

Quoting Rd.:" She put that on her facebook  "

Oh YES she did.

Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" Oh YES she did."

Lol, awkward (no offense). I have an Aunt that does that, posts every personal thing, whether it's appropriate or not aha... it actually ruined her marriage.

Quoting Rd.:" Lol, awkward (no offense). I have an Aunt that does that, posts every personal thing, whether it's appropriate or not aha... it actually ruined her marriage."

I'm sooo used to my friends posting CRAZY personal things that I just... kinda gave up feeling weird about it.. now I read it.. and it's like my jerry springer or personal maury show.

--> and I know for a fact they aren't staged. ;) lol

Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" I just want to thank you ladies so much! Seriously, she inboxed me on facebook.. and we got to talking ... [snip!] ... her number to keep her from being tempted to going back to him. I really appreciate you guys giving me JUST the right words."

Hopefully she actually follows through with it for her sake. It's easier said than done

He sounds like a douche simply for emotional cheating, regardless of the reason. If he was no longer attracted to the way she looks he should have been honest (in as nice a way as possible, not that there is a nice way to say that).

Is she comfortable with her weight gain? If she is, then perhaps she should leave him because she needs to find someone who is as happy with how she looks as she is.

If she is unhappy with her weight, then she should lose it- for herself and no one else. Being healthy, exercising and all that comes with it, would be a huge esteem boost.